Does anyone have usless bridal party members?? what did u do? my wedding is not for over a year but still there are things we needed done and some of the members didnt participate i know there world doesnt revolve around my weddin but give me a break people arent THAT busy.
beaviss80
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mine are all useless except for one girl...so i didn't ask them for anything except to order their dresses. that way i didn't have to be annoyed. its not that big of a deal to not have them do wedding stuff with me. the less people around the less opinions i don't need! hahaha
bellaro782
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Posted by beaviss80
mine are all useless except for one girl...so i didn't ask them for anything except to order their dresses. that way i didn't have to be annoyed. its not that big of a deal to not have them do wedding stuff with me. the less people around the less opinions i don't need! hahaha
Great point lol I will keep telling myself that LOL
NY031978
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YUP!!!!!! My MOH is good...she has her own wedding 5 months after me so i cant blame her when shes busy-i know the feeling! But whenever i need her shes there. My older sister and cousin both married and i was in their party...i did it ALL for them and now its my turn and they dont wanna do anything----VERY hurt by them! MY sister is good when it comes to crafts so i know she will step up! My other girls are just a waste but i had no choice but to ask them too be part of the party!
beaviss80
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Posted by bellaro782
Posted by beaviss80
mine are all useless except for one girl...so i didn't ask them for anything except to order their dresses. that way i didn't have to be annoyed. its not that big of a deal to not have them do wedding stuff with me. the less people around the less opinions i don't need! hahaha
Great point lol I will keep telling myself that LOL
thanks and honestly thats how i feel. i know what i want , so why ask for what they think...
iffy
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I expect basically NOTHING from them other than to order a dress, show up, and smile for pictures.
This way, I can be pleasantly surprised when they do anything above & beyond that!
rojerono
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I only have one MOH... she is my best friend, but she has 2 little girls and she is about to start extensive renovations on her house... so she is not much help. But like Beaviss said... I expect nothing. SO every little bit is appreciated when she can offer it!
She hasn't even been able to go dress shopping with me!
nala3378
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I thought mine were all useless, but they all came through this weekend and busted their butts to help me get everything finished...
Have you asked the, to help.... I started out asking... This time I told them they were doing this at this time and they all showed up...