OK, SO IS ANYONE ELSE THERE THAT CANNOT AGREE ON THE PPL IN THERE BRIDAL PARTY?? MY FIANCE AND I SEEM TO BUTT HEADS A BIT ON THIS ONE.....
dawnNkurt
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Yes, I was in the same boat... I did not want my FH's sister in-law in the wedding party.. She is very snotty, nasty and very out spoken about people and things she does not like.. Plus she had a falling out with his family a year ago... But we knew if we did not have her in the party my FH's brother could not be in the wedding.. So I agreed to allow her to be in the party but if we have any problems with her during the time until we get married she will be asked to step down.. Actually this situation did cause a fight between my FH and myself because his sister in-law and not the happiest person in the world.. But you know what.. This is your day ENJOY!! And carry a BIG STICK.. Hehehehe!!
MJDoc12
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FH and i agreed that my party is MY party and his party is HIS. like he couldn't tell me i HAVE To have someone in my party, cause quite frankly i'm the one who has to deal with them, and vice versa.
i hope you can work it out!
MnM52607
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We agreed for the most part. The only thing I asked (which he was planning anyway) is to ask my brother.
Hisforever
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yes it the begginning where where having some issues, but now everything is set. FH turned out to be right about two of the girls! Glad i listened to him
AMANDA2378
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THANKS, YEAH MY FIANCE FEELS THAT HE PICKS THE MEN AND I PICK THE GIRLS, BUT I HAVE TO HAVE HIS SISTER IN THE PARTY (WHICH I AM GONNA ANYWAY) BUT HE DOESNT THINK MY BRO IN LAW OF 10 YRS HAS TO BE IN IT, BUT MY OTHER BRO IN LAW THAT HES FRINEDS WITH IS GONNA BE IN IT....PLUS ALL 3 OF MY SISTERS ARE IN IT. SO HOW DO I HAVE MY ENTIRE FAM IN EXCEPT ONE OF MY BRO IN LAWS. HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND WHERE IM COMING FROM. HES GONNA BE IN IT, BC OTHERWISE HIS SISTER WONT. I KNOW THATS MEAN AND SPITFUL, BUT IF HE WONT HAVE HIM, THEN I WONT HAVE HER!! IS THAT MEAN??
rachie
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Amanda, I think that you should put your BIL in the party - that would not be fair to him if the whole family is in it but him. Trust me it will cause family issues down the road
AMANDA2378
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I KNOW, I KNOW AND IM GONNA HAVE HIM, I JUST NEED A WAY FOR HIM TO SEE WHERE IM COMING FROM....HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND IT
tricia3381
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Posted by MJDoc12
FH and i agreed that my party is MY party and his party is HIS. like he couldn't tell me i HAVE To have someone in my party, cause quite frankly i'm the one who has to deal with them, and vice versa.
