Bridal party

LiBride23 Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:13 PM

Bridal party

i was speaking fo my FH today and my mom.. I was thinking about cutting my Bridal party. Rightnow i have Four girls and four guys. I am thinking about Just keeping my 2 sisters and my Fh BMan and His Cousin GM. It is just depending on people. I have a strong feeling search for people at the time of the wedding i wont be able 2 rely on them. Like Even now to go look at BM dresses. Only my sister's have the time my BF and the other grl do not have a good schedule. What should I do.

little j Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:16 PM

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did you already ask all 4??

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:29 PM

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I say whatever makes it easier on you. I am actually having 10 girls and 10 guys but I am not taking my girls with me to pick out the dresses that decision will be up to me my mom and sister. You could do it that way just have your sis be involved w/ the picking of the dresses so that there aren't so many heads involved.

Just Cindy Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:34 PM

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Well if you asked them already I think it wouldnt be right to take it back. if you havent asked yet then do whatever you are comfy with. I only have 2 girls.

RPMG26599 Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:36 PM

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Did you ask all 4 already??? If you did, I would not cut 2 of them off. That would hurt some feeling and def put some stress on your relationship with these 2 other girls. Obiously they are special people to you if you asked them in the first place, right?

Maybe you can talk to them personally and explain to them how you feel and if they want to be in this party, they have to be more involved.

But def dont cut them out. It will break their hearts

RPMG26599 Posted: Feb 17, 2009 05:39 PM

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Posted by SoonToBMrsC

I say whatever makes it easier on you. I am actually having 10 girls and 10 guys but I am not taking my girls with me to pick out the dresses that decision will be up to me my mom and sister. You could do it that way just have your sis be involved w/ the picking of the dresses so that there aren't so many heads involved.

I did the same thing....Im having 9 girls (2 of them my sisters) and when I went to get my dress I only had my mom and my sisters =) The other girls totally understood and it didnt bother them at all

LiBride23 Posted: Feb 17, 2009 07:48 PM

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Well Wat i just did was Texted a memo to them of the dress and style and color. I asked them Since it is hard Since our schedules are all over the place for them to please go on there own times. If they want to just do a one on one wit me then i will work around the schedule. it just seems no one is up for it. so i will see how this works.

hogie2be Posted: Feb 17, 2009 10:26 PM

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My sister is the only one and she was giving me a hard time about going to find a dress and eventually I gave an ultimatium with a timeline... it worked

LiBride23 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 08:32 AM

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it seems thats what i have 2 do.

Celeste617 Posted: Feb 18, 2009 12:21 PM

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I don't have many girls (MOH and 2 BMs) but it is damn near impossible to get together. I just sent them the info and told them to order the dress by a particular date. Saved us the hassle of setting up a gtg.