Bridal Party Aggravation

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Sep 19, 2006 10:58 AM

Bridal Party Aggravation

It seems like the same old story. How we give new brides to be the suggestion of waiting to pick your BP. I am so disgusted with some of my girls. 2 to be exact. I just can't take it!
{{{{{{{LOUD SCREAM}}}}}}}}

SeptBride70 Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:05 AM

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i SO know how you feel, it's awful

i'm so sorry

i wish i would have waited SO bad, i would give anything to go back and change just one FREAKING PITA PERSON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well, if you can (i can't) but if you can-- boot them! my friend did and she was so happy w/ her decision

jenafee Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:06 AM

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MY MOH is being a total PITA. I wish I could change mine too

enjft Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:09 AM

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Dude! I know the feeling!

chrissyandvin Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:16 AM

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I know the feeling also!!!!!

Das142 Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:24 AM

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I know what you mean! Thank god I just got rid of 'the one' and i couldnt be happier i feel so releaved!

causeimb Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:31 AM

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Im glad Im not having BP. I may have my cousin/ best friend stand with me but that's it.

sugarkube4 Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:32 AM

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I have a BM and a GM that FH and I would love to kick out, and the only reason why we are keeping them is bc FH was in their bridal party last year and we gave them a BIG gift and we feel that if we took them out, we risk them not coming to the wedding and we lose that gift.. so we are biding our time..

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:41 AM

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Posted by Das142

I know what you mean! Thank god I just got rid of 'the one' and i couldnt be happier i feel so releaved!

You are so lucky!!!

Unapearla Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:42 AM

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Trust me I know! There are like 2 GM that me and FI no longer want in our BP.

KD1279 Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:45 AM

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Mine hasnt happened yet, but I can smell the beef cokin

smurray Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:55 AM

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This is exactly why I have just my sister, his sister, and my closest two friends that I have know since pre school. No worries here

soon2bmrsdunn Posted: Sep 19, 2006 11:59 AM

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leshellem Posted: Sep 19, 2006 12:19 PM

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So sad how we all can relate, I want to fire my sister (moh), but my mom said I cant.

billandme Posted: Sep 19, 2006 12:21 PM

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It hasn't happened to me yet and I am hoping that it won't!! So sorry you all are dealing with this though......that's not fun at all

ant n tilde Posted: Sep 19, 2006 12:58 PM

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thats why i have a TINY bp - my cousin and my best friend on my side, and his brother on his side - so far

everyone is WONDERFUL except for one jr BM - and she is TEN!!!!!! she is giving me such a hard time i feel like crying - i thought i would avoid all this by picking only people i could count on 100% but no such luck. . .

mskittynj Posted: Sep 19, 2006 02:02 PM

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AMEN SISTA!!!!!!!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

MysteryGroom Posted: Sep 19, 2006 02:47 PM

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I'm praying that FW axes one of the bridesmaids already.
I think she's getting closer to doing so.

Guess143xo Posted: Sep 19, 2006 03:14 PM

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Mine seemed to be picked for me by outside sources before I even got the chance to ask. :) inlaws fun, no I am fine with mine but again sometimes you don't have a choice when u have parents who insist you need to have a relative. I really didn't even want a large bridal party b/c of all the drama it brings with it, pathetic huh.

My only complaint it just seems that no one cares to help look for dresses but I get the OH YOU ARE GOING TO BE A BRIDEZILLA AND MAKE US WEAR SOMETHING UGLY. Mind you I have been saying I want everyone to be happy with what they have to wear and not insisting anything. I seem to go by myself alot of the times b/c ,my MOH is always tired, My sister pain in the butt. My one friend is the only one who has volunteered but again that hasn't been fun either since again there are always complaints. I swear I should just pick something and say screw it I don't care what you want but again thats not me to say that. PEOPLE pleaser stupid me