Bridal Party Dilemma

Ok, here's the deal. You all know my stories about FH's best friends evil wife. Ok..fine.

The thing is, we don't think he is going to be a groomsman anymore. This has not been finalized, but let's just assume so.

If FH has to replace him, we have 2 choices. First is FHs sister's (my BM) boyfriend of a million years. He is an okay guy, but he is pretty emotionless, boring, and down right blah. He doesn't smile much and I am afraid that his blah attitude will come out in the photos. He also skeeves me out a lttle bit. I don't know why, but he does. FH thinks this is a good option so this way they can be together in the bridal party.

Second option is another of FH's longtime friends. I really like him. He is a very happy go lucky person, has a terrific personality, and it would dfinitely show in the photos. Also, he is just a great guy to be around. FH is concerned that this man's wife will be alone during the wedding. I told him that's only hte case during the ceremony and phoo session. Afterward, they would be together.

I know FH will make the final decision, but what do you girls think?

Just from what you said-I think I'd go with the friend who is happy My FH has been in several bridal parties where I had to go to the church alone etc and be alone during parts of the cocktail hour-but I survived-I didnt know anyone at one wedding and managed to strick up a conversation with people and migle. I'm sure she'll be ok.

Good Luck!