So initially I was going to have FH and Best man up at the alter together. The grooms parents/grandmother of the groom/ and the rest of the bridal party coming down the aisle after that....
The grandmother of fh is very against walking down the aisle by herself...There are no other grandparents who are still living to walk down with her....and she knows nobody at the wedding other than myself, fh, parents of the groom, and the bestman. She refuses to walk down the aisle with a stranger to her.
So my plan now is to allow her to walk down the aisle with the best man (fh husbands brother so its her grandson...which she obviously would be okay with)
Does it look completely wierd to have the bridal party walk out as follows...
Groom at alter Bestman and grandmother of the groom mother and stepfather of the groom father and stepmother of the groom bridemaids and escorting groomsmen (there are 8...not including the MOH and best man) finishing of with MOH (my sister) by herself
and then ofcourse myself with my parents walking me down the aisle.
I have never seen the best man walk out first with a grandaparent but its kindof my only option without grandma going buck wild.....
Any other opions or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!!
JTG4EVER
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I think that would be absolutely beautiful. I wish my grandma was able to walk down. I think that its going to be precious. Especially since the best man is her grandson. That is going to be a picture to treasure forever. I love the idea.
Lindseyenglish4
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Already making me feel better and i just posted this 2 minutes ago! yayyyy i can always count on the LIW girls
fdnybride163
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of course!
rosatemp
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Posted by JTG4EVER
I think that would be absolutely beautiful. I wish my grandma was able to walk down. I think that its going to be precious. Especially since the best man is her grandson. That is going to be a picture to treasure forever. I love the idea.
ITA if my grandmother was alive id def have a cousin walk her in!! I love it
Soon2bShea
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I had some processional order issues also...and after trying to figure it out and stressing, the end result is who cares if its weird as long as everyone gets down the aisle!
Lindseyenglish4
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very good point
SoonToBeEMM
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I think that sounds great. Not weird at all
SoonToBeMrsFox
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i think that's perfect.
chilly313
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I think it sounds perfect - the day should be about what is good for you and your family, not what's 'right' or 'expected'. As long as you are OK with it, making Fh's grandmother comfortable is what's important.
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I had:
DH and BIL and Nephew two Best Men up there
Stepmom and Grandmother MIL and FIL Mom and Godfather BP Matron of Honor Maid of Honor and then FG's and RB and then