Bridal party picking issue! Please Help!!

I am having issues with my bridal party.

This is who we are picking

My sister as my MOH
and FH's twin as his BM
FH is picking my 2 brothers and close friend
I am picking my 2 close friends and Sister in Law

The only one i am not picking is my brother in law for 2 reasons..

1. he and my sister have a 1 yr old son and someone needs to watch him in church

2. i dont really have anyone else i would like to pick in the bridal party.

Its really bothering me that he is left out and dont want to do that and am having a really hard time picking!! AHHHHHHHHHH i have been going crazy with stress and i really need to pick my BP!!!!!!

Opinions please!!!

Why does the BM and GM have to be equal?! If you want your BIL in the wedding party just ask him regardless of number!

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Posted by Ellynrose

Why does the BM and GM have to be equal?! If you want your BIL in the wedding party just ask him regardless of number!

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Agreed

Thank you all so much!! I never even thought of it that way!! I was so obsessed with matching numbers!! you girls are awesome!!

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Posted by jojo07135

Thank you all so much!! I never even thought of it that way!! I was so obsessed with matching numbers!! you girls are awesome!!

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I had 1 extra BM so 1 GM walked down with two girls...and it looked fine!

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Posted by mattandjess2013

I only have 3 girls, FH has 5 guys.. I don't think it needs to be even unless you want it to be.

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I totally agree. I had 9 girls and 10 guys until my future sister in law dropped out a few weeks ago bc she is pregnant and due 1 month before the wedding. So now I have 8 BM and 10 GM....the not having even #'s thing doesnt bother me. So its up to you. But I dont think it has to be even at all. If you want him in the wedding party then go for it!

Agreed. I have one bm, FH has five gm. Not about the number....all about who you want by your side!