Bridal party question

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opinions please!!

I had a great response, but I'm tired of LIW logging me off while I write, and then not letting me cut and paste . . . . ugh.

In sum, I say look at the part of the story where Lynne tells Jamie Lynne that 'she knows best' and to ignore what the doctors say she should and should not do . .. .

Really Lynne? Really? Have you seen what's happening to the girls you sold out? While I'm sure the doctor didn't warn 'don't let her cheat on Justin' (which was Britney's first mistake, of many -- the man is a goldmine and a cuteypie) -- I'm pretty sure that the doc's advice is better than this Mom's!!!!

UPDATE:::: This wound up on the wrong post due to technical difficulties, hahaha. It's for the Jamie Lynne Spears looks like grandma thread, but I'm too tired to keep trying to cut and paste when the site won't let you!!!

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Posted by lanamanitta

I had a great response, but I'm tired of LIW logging me off while I write, and then not letting me cut and paste . . . . ugh.

In sum, I say look at the part of the story where Lynne tells Jamie Lynne that 'she knows best' and to ignore what the doctors say she should and should not do . .. .

Really Lynne? Really? Have you seen what's happening to the girls you sold out? While I'm sure the doctor didn't warn 'don't let her cheat on Justin' (which was Britney's first mistake, of many -- the man is a goldmine and a cuteypie) -- I'm pretty sure that the doc's advice is better than this Mom's!!!!

UPDATE:::: This wound up on the wrong post due to technical difficulties, hahaha. It's for the Jamie Lynne Spears looks like grandma thread, but I'm too tired to keep trying to cut and paste when the site won't let you!!!

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amazing!!!!

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Posted by Espo22

i would ask her, it sounds as if you want her to be part of your bridal party. I am sure she will feel real honored to be asked.

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im pretty obvious about wanting her in my BP huh?? thanks for the response. NOW... do you think i should give her the heads up before the e-party and ask her if shes ok with it or should i just sort of surprise her with the rest of the girls and ask her at the eparty???

It sounds like you guys have a great friendship and you want to ask her ...so do it!

If you want her aks her. You can't plan for 'what if'. If something happens... they do breakup or something then you will figure that out when the time comes. Right now I wouldn't worry about 'what if's' and just do what you want for your wedding day. I would ask her when you ask everyone else.

Good luck!

I might be in the minority here but....your wedding is 2 years away-WAIT TO ASK ANY OF YOUR BP!

Trust me when I say this, I had 2 1/2 years to plan my wedding and I asked my BP almost immediately-2 of those people I cut out about 8 months prior. Alot can happen in 2 years-ALOT! All the things that your BP plans and does together doesnt happen until closer to your wedding-i would wait-it will put you in a very uncomfortable position to have to ask her to step down.

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Posted by PegaLega

I might be in the minority here but....your wedding is 2 years away-WAIT TO ASK ANY OF YOUR BP!

Trust me when I say this, I had 2 1/2 years to plan my wedding and I asked my BP almost immediately-2 of those people I cut out about 8 months prior. Alot can happen in 2 years-ALOT! All the things that your BP plans and does together doesnt happen until closer to your wedding-i would wait-it will put you in a very uncomfortable position to have to ask her to step down.

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i totally agree with asking your BP until closer til the wedding however, the rest of my bridal party is. my sister, my 4 cousins and my Fhs cousin and theyre not going anywhere.. so im not worried about things changing in two years. the only one that could change would be my friend i mentioned before.

i had my FH ask his friend if HE was ok with us asking his GF and he said hes GF would love it and he thinks theyre in it for the long haul.. so ive decided on asking her at the e-party with everyone else bc i think it would be weird to ask he later than everyone else. ill just keep my fingers crossed. and if a problem comes up we will just deal with it then.

thanks so much for your advice!!!