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Bridal Reflections nightmare ..(sorry very Long)

Original post by Sunrise813

I bought my dress from Bridal Reflections a week ago, at the time I was happy with the service. The lady assigned to me was very pleasant, the sample dress was really huge on me, and she pinned it on me, in a way that it look like it was my size. I loved it!! They also happen to have the Jim Helm dress I chose for my BMs, so I asked what price they would sell them for (I am buying 9 dresses). I was told by the owner of the store that I should come back with my girls and have them try it on and then we could speak about the price. And that since I am buying a lot of dresses and just bought an expensive dress from them that she would really work with me on the price. Well I made an appointment to come back a week later.

When I went home I realized in all the excitement of buying my dress I forgot to take pictures of myself I my dress. So I called and made an appointment to try on my dress again & take pictures, they said fine. Well I showed up for my appointment and they couldn’t be bother with helping me, they didn’t even have a person assigned to help me at all, they just told I could use one of their dressing rooms. My sister had to pin the dress but was not able to because the dress was so big on me, after bugging them for a while they finally sent a girl from the BM section to help me, she was very sweet, but it was obvious she did not have the skills that the bridal sales people, who had previously helped me had. Needless to say the dress was sitting on me terrible, it just looked awful. Which is making me second guess my choice of dresses. I just have to keep reminding myself that when the dress was pinned on me right, I really loved it on.

Anyway if that wasn’t enough, when it came time to speak to the owner about price she would not come and speak to me in person she gave sending someone else, after about 10 times of asking to speak to her she finally did. She tells me that the best offer she cam give me is a 5% discount, I told her that I had made phone calls to about 20 other stores that carry this dress and all agreed to give me a 20% discount because I was buying 9 dresses. She then proceeded to tell me that she believes the other stores may be selling counterfeit dresses. The other stores I may add are very reputable in the bridal industry Adrienne’s, Here comes the bridesmaids, Kleinfeld’s Bridesmaids Loft, Lillettes, I can go on, like I said I called about 20 of Jim Helm’s distributors for quotes, they were all willing to give me the same discount, give or take a couple of dollars.

One more thing, I noticed when I went home my dress receipt said 11/15/05 as the order date, I purchased the dress on 10/15/05. This made me nervous because when I purchased my dress they said it would not come in until March, well if they don’t order it till November then it would not come in till April, my wedding is in May!! I asked them to please change the original copy of the receipt and show it to me, they said the original receipt was in a locked office and the person who has the key was not in that day. They changed it on my copy and assured me that my dress had been ordered.

I know now that I was stupid to not speak about the price for the BM dresses BEFORE
I bought my dress (which I may add was not cheap).

Anyway I wanted to write this to give you girls a heads up on this store, and too vent a little. I really am not looking forward to going in for my fittings. I was considering buying my veil from them, now I will never use them Again!!


Sorry for the Long post, thanks for reading it.
dancint Posted:

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I had too many bad experiences there! My best friends wedding was last summer and the y ordered us the wrong dress and then tryed to tell us that we didnt remeber what they looked like. Needless to say .. they were wrong... they failed to tell us that when they placed the dress order thay found out it was dicontinued and just ordered us the new style WITHOUT letting us know. The were extremely rude and overpriced!!!!! They ended up having to alter our necklines to look like the dress WE did order. ..

WHen I called to make an appt. for my wedding gown... the first questioned they asked was how much was I looking to spend.

Since when is that important.. if I found a dress that I love, I dont care what it cost..

VEry rude and snobby people!
Marisa M Posted:

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I used the Carle Place store for my gown, and the Massapequa store for my BM's and my Mom's gown.
The ONLY problem I had was w/ my seamstress. She was just a little bit pushy and abrupt. But whatever, I told her MY gown, MY (well, my Mom's) Checkbook MY way lady !!

People have good and bad experiences everywhere b/c everyone is looking for something different in Customer Service.
I personally HATED Adrianne's - I thought the staff was incompetent and rude. But that was me . -
burningwithlove Posted:

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I had a bad experience with them as a bridesmaid and because of this I urge people I know not to use them.

I had to return to the store 4 times to have my dress altered and fight with the seamstress to get it right. She was downright nasty to me and my mother!
Also while I was there 2 of the 4 times there was a young 17 year old girl who loved a sample dress for her prom. The dress was a size 12 and the girl was a size 0. They promised her if she bought the dress that they could alter it for her. So of course since she loved the dress she bought it. Well, I jsut happened to be there when she came back to have it altered and the seamstress told her it was impossible. Not only that, but the manager wasnt going to give her, her money back. I ended up leaving before it was resolved but how horrible is that?
AmyMarie Posted:

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This is why I send people to Kleinfelds...Great customer service, will work with you on budget and just for coming into the appointment I received a coupon for 15% of BM dresses at their Bridesmaids Loft!

Amy
JennJay Posted:

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wow, you should not have been treated like that.... Doesn't stuff like that make you wish all bridal stores would read these posts. They really should make this experience as pleasent for you as possible. If you don't mind me asking, which bridal reflections was it? This weekend I got fitted for a dress at the one in massapequa. My FSIL wanted her bm to all wear tea length dresses, but her request is that when being hemed at the bottom, the bottom of the dresses match up in a straight line for pics. She didn't want the bottoms of the dresses to be zig zagged. They were so pushy and kept telling her that they wouldn't look good that way. She saw pics of them straight across, and pics where it fell so that they were uneven at the bottom and her way looked much better. Why are they giving the brides such a hard time.

Sunrise813 Posted:

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Posted by JennJay

wow, you should not have been treated like that.... Doesn't stuff like that make you wish all bridal stores would read these posts. They really should make this experience as pleasent for you as possible. If you don't mind me asking, which bridal reflections was it? This weekend I got fitted for a dress at the one in massapequa. My FSIL wanted her bm to all wear tea length dresses, but her request is that when being hemed at the bottom, the bottom of the dresses match up in a straight line for pics. She didn't want the bottoms of the dresses to be zig zagged. They were so pushy and kept telling her that they wouldn't look good that way. She saw pics of them straight across, and pics where it fell so that they were uneven at the bottom and her way looked much better. Why are they giving the brides such a hard time.



It was the Carle Place location. You know I have given this some thought now, and I think that everyone at BR think that they are “the best” and this attitude comes across as snobby, rude, pushy and down right unpleasant. They think because they are the “experts” that they have a right to tell you what to do, they don’t realize every bride has a vision of their day, its their job to help her achieve it, not to tell her what her vision should be!
October Bliss Posted:

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I also had a bad experience with the Carle Place location, and Christine - the owner in particular. She told me an Eve of Milady dress (that she previously told me on the phone she had in the store) was not out yet, after I got there, having made the appointment to see that particular dress (and 3 others, all of which she said on the phone she had, I only saw 2 of 4). When I got upset about it, she 'reminded' me how her store is the # 1 Bridal Salon on LI. I called EoM the Monday following that conversation, and they assured me the dress was available, told me what salon had it to try on, and then asked which salon gave me such misinformation.

Junebride06 Posted:

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Posted by SexyEsq

I also had a bad experience with the Carle Place location, and Christine - the owner in particular. She told me an Eve of Milady dress (that she previously told me on the phone she had in the store) was not out yet, after I got there, having made the appointment to see that particular dress (and 3 others, all of which she said on the phone she had, I only saw 2 of 4). When I got upset about it, she 'reminded' me how her store is the # 1 Bridal Salon on LI. I called EoM the Monday following that conversation, and they assured me the dress was available, told me what salon had it to try on, and then asked which salon gave me such misinformation.



I had a bad experience with the above mentioned person as well. I was quoted a price by Massapequa BR for an EoM dress that I was considering and the price was written on my card. I then went to their Carle Place location to try more dresses on (they are a bigger shop) and I ended up still wanting my original EoM. I told them the price I was given in Massapequa and they refused to honor it, telling me I couldn't have been given that price. I told them to call the other store because it was on my card and I was then told that it wasn't written down (A LIE - I SAW HER WRITE IT!). Anyway, neither store ended up honoring the price (which wasn't really a deal anyway - it was a difference of about $80!!!) so I ordered it somewhere else and save about $1000!!!!
Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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Posted by SexyEsq

I also had a bad experience with the Carle Place location, and Christine - the owner in particular. She told me an Eve of Milady dress (that she previously told me on the phone she had in the store) was not out yet, after I got there, having made the appointment to see that particular dress (and 3 others, all of which she said on the phone she had, I only saw 2 of 4). When I got upset about it, she 'reminded' me how her store is the # 1 Bridal Salon on LI. I called EoM the Monday following that conversation, and they assured me the dress was available, told me what salon had it to try on, and then asked which salon gave me such misinformation.


their arrogance has clearly cost them a lot of business. they should pull their heads of their @sses
LMFitz Posted:

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Posted by SANDNOV12

This was the first place that I went and I was totally turned off. I never went back.



Ditto for me. My mom wrote them a note commenting on their poor attitude - which I'm sure will have no affect on their disposition - - - but it made Mom feel good!
mable Posted:

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I too had problems w/ that store, My BFF had her wedding last year and we were 12 girls and they were rude and nasty..
I mean be a little nicer do you realize how much you are making off us??
pmnkm Posted:

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Sunrise813...FYI I had major issues with the massapequa store and vented about it on here. THEY CALLED ME AND YELLED AT ME ABOUT IT! like 'how dare I speak of them that way' so on an so forth. Anyway, the next time I go in...they have my post PRINTED out and stapled to the card! EVERYONE in the store knew about itand they wouldn't even look me int he eye. I just want you to be aware that they do read the posts here and they may call you on it. Good luck!

Sunrise813 Posted:

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Posted by pmnkm

Sunrise813...FYI I had major issues with the massapequa store and vented about it on here. THEY CALLED ME AND YELLED AT ME ABOUT IT! like 'how dare I speak of them that way' so on an so forth. Anyway, the next time I go in...they have my post PRINTED out and stapled to the card! EVERYONE in the store knew about itand they wouldn't even look me int he eye. I just want you to be aware that they do read the posts here and they may call you on it. Good luck!




I hope they do. Maybe they'll learn how to treat customers.

I can't believe they did that to you, this stores is unbelievable!!!!
Roziw Posted:

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Well, if they do read these posts then they're really stupid, you would think they would learn their lessons and change their customer service. I had a terrible experience at the Mass. location, meanwhile-here I was going for the first time with my mom to shop for a wedding dress...You know what the lady who helped us told me...'Well, we obviously dont have any dresses here that are of your taste' and get this-she only showed me a total of 8 dresses...oh, that's because their ridiculous policy is 'to bring dresses to you...' as if they know me..or my taste!!!

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