Do ALL the women invited to the wedding get invited to the shower or just a certain amount?
It depends on how many people, I am just having mainly immediate family, 1st cousins and friends...
I am having 2 showers...due to location. One shower, my FMIL is hosting, she is inviting the women she is inviting to the wedding, family and friends. My other one is a suprise, I dont know whose hosting it, but that one will have most of my side of the family and friends, as well as all my friends. I am not having my FI's friends girlfriends or wives to either one, as I don't go out with them unless I am with my FI. (They also do not live near either of the shower locations)
