so i was talking to my mother about plans for my bridal shower, and she tells me that she wants to have 2 showers - one for her side of the family one for my dads - her and my sil are not really on speaking terms, and she is very uncomfortable around her..now i understand the way my mother feels, and her reasons behind it, but i really do not want to have 2 showers, i think it is ridiculous. i tried to tell her in a nice way that she kinda needs to suck it up for the day and just ignore her, but she will not reason with me at all....advice anyone??
sunshine1813
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I have to agree w/ you 100%. I think that weddings are one of those family events that everyone needs to put aside there differences and remember the reason you are all coming together to celebrate...YOUR WEDDING. That's almost like saying, your going to have two weddings b/c there are ppl there she or someone else feels uncomfortable with. I think that you should tell your mom the same thing. What's going to happen the day of your wedding??? GOOD LUCK!!!
maureen519
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i said that to her..'what are you going to do at the wedding' and she just didnt answer me...i think deep down she knows the right thing to do, shes just stubborn!!!
