Bridal Shower

I know we all know we're getting one but I honestly HATE when brides start butting in to their own bridal shower about what they want blah blah blah...be bridezilla about your wedding not something that other people are doing for you. It's supposed to be a surprise (unless you've stated otherwise) if you want to keep telling people what to do then plan the $hit yourself...and pay for it yourself!

ETA: Yea a little harsh but eh whatever

I am not helping with the planning, or anything like that.

But i did ask my mom to not suprise me.. So she said she will only be telling me when it is.

We agreed to have the time/date not be a suprise, but everything else will be. I thought it was a fair enough compromise.

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

I know we all know we're getting one but I honestly HATE when brides start butting in to their own bridal shower about what they want blah blah blah...be bridezilla about your wedding not something that other people are doing for you. It's supposed to be a surprise (unless you've stated otherwise) if you want to keep telling people what to do then plan the $hit yourself...and pay for it yourself!

ETA: Yea a little harsh but eh whatever

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I agree, let them have their part and do it...PLUS TAKE A BREAK!!!! we dont have to plan everything...i am glad this is one part i dont have to plan and drive myself crazy.

My only request is a few months before the wedding bc i dont want those guests to buy shower gifts then like a few weeks later give a gift at the wedding...It'll be too much

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Posted by ShanonandSteve

I am not helping with the planning, or anything like that.

But i did ask my mom to not suprise me.. So she said she will only be telling me when it is.

We agreed to have the time/date not be a suprise, but everything else will be. I thought it was a fair enough compromise.

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I'm nervous to have a surprise bridal shower, well I'm nervous to have a surprise anything I would love to know when it is.

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by ShanonandSteve

I am not helping with the planning, or anything like that.

But i did ask my mom to not suprise me.. So she said she will only be telling me when it is.

We agreed to have the time/date not be a suprise, but everything else will be. I thought it was a fair enough compromise.

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I'm nervous to have a surprise bridal shower, well I'm nervous to have a surprise anything I would love to know when it is.

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I think I would be very uncomfortable walking into a surprise bridal shower. And I think I would be hard to surprise because I would constantly be thinking 'this may be it!'.

My mom said she was thinking the same thing, because I know all her tricks from planning other surprise parties.

So my sister and my mom decided to ask me what i wanted..
- to be completely surprised
- to know the date/time
- to know everything, and help plan everything

I went with choice 2. I trust them to plan.

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Posted by Ilovebriani

the only thing i asked was towards my FH (cuz he will obviously know when it will be even if i dont)....to make sure that i wear something nice and look presentable that day! i would hate to walk into my own bridal shower looking like a mess!

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thats what i said but my MOH said not to worry, she will bring clothes just in case lol

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Ilovebriani

the only thing i asked was towards my FH (cuz he will obviously know when it will be even if i dont)....to make sure that i wear something nice and look presentable that day! i would hate to walk into my own bridal shower looking like a mess!

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thats what i said but my MOH said not to worry, she will bring clothes just in case lol

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My MOH is buying her bridal shower outfit then giving it to me to keep for when it's her bridal shower and then she can change!

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Ilovebriani

the only thing i asked was towards my FH (cuz he will obviously know when it will be even if i dont)....to make sure that i wear something nice and look presentable that day! i would hate to walk into my own bridal shower looking like a mess!

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thats what i said but my MOH said not to worry, she will bring clothes just in case lol

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My MOH is buying her bridal shower outfit then giving it to me to keep for when it's her bridal shower and then she can change!

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hahaha shes planning everything ahead of time to be prepared

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by dancinmyazoff

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Ilovebriani

the only thing i asked was towards my FH (cuz he will obviously know when it will be even if i dont)....to make sure that i wear something nice and look presentable that day! i would hate to walk into my own bridal shower looking like a mess!

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thats what i said but my MOH said not to worry, she will bring clothes just in case lol

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My MOH is buying her bridal shower outfit then giving it to me to keep for when it's her bridal shower and then she can change!

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hahaha shes planning everything ahead of time to be prepared

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You have NOOOOOOOOOO idea

I will have no say in it... but that didn't stop me from picking up a caterint/private party menu to give to my mom while I was at Milk & Sugar for lunch this weekend....