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BRIDAL SHOWER CATASTROPHE!!!!

Moonmist09 Posted:

BRIDAL SHOWER CATASTROPHE!!!!

first, let me start off by saying that i was initially very upset because my shower is going to be so late. I was enagged once before and 11 days before the wedding the whole thing fell apart. I don't know, if because of that, my mom and sister waited so long and so close to the wedding to plan my shower (or do and buy so many things non shower related, but we'll put that to the side for now)
I am not supposed to know about my shower. It supposed to be a surprise. But, through no fault of my own, random people have be coming up to me and telling me all about my shower, like specific details. I guess they think I know about it.

The shower is at a cafe close to my home (which was another problem all on its own, b/c most of the people coming to my shower are off the boat old world italian and this place sells fun stuff we would like, but not to their taste, but again, we will put this to the side) This morning, my mom calls me and says, is there a fire on our street? I said no, why? The ladies that she works for at her school were saying that a bunch of parents were calling in saying they were stuck on 38th street (my block) behind several fire trucks and that their kids would be late. I told her I would call her back when I left the house to see if it was near us. I call her later and i told her, the fire is at least 2 blocks away. I could see fire trucks, but nothing else. She then tells me that the fire was at the cafe. (Now she doesn't know that i know all about the shower)
When she is telling me this, there is so much nervousness in her voice, I feel so bad.
She already called FH and told him that she heard from other people in her school that the cafe was completely destroyed and that they will need to find a new place to hold my shower and they she will go to two other restaurants near us to see if they have that date available.

Please keep your fingers crossed for us ladies and lots of LIW prayers that one of those two restaurants has the original date of my shower available! Its so close, it may already be booked and its going to be bad enough to call everyone and tell them the new location of the shower!
I don't even want to think about what will happen if the date changes and everything else that will entail, from people who could come, and now can't and OMG what a mess!

lisam1113 Posted:

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omg!!! keeping my fingers crossed & prayers your wayyyy
HeatherLynna Posted:

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Don't stress out too much!!! It is not in your hands, and I'm sure your mother and all involved will do whatever they can to work it all out for you!
BlushandBashful Posted:

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Posted by HeatherLynna



Don't stress out too much!!! It is not in your hands, and I'm sure your mother and all involved will do whatever they can to work it all out for you!



This exactly!
MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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Oh no! I hope everything works out for you!!!!!
Cataverri Posted:

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This is really a catastrophe. Well I hope everything works out fine. Worst case scenerio maybe hosting the shower in a house.

Moonmist09 Posted:

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Posted by Cataverri

This is really a catastrophe. Well I hope everything works out fine. Worst case scenerio maybe hosting the shower in a house.




having it at the house isn't an option. our house is too small and my sister had hers in a restaurant, and she would never do mine in a house if my sister didn't - she is very much the, what one gets, the other gets the same type person.
Aliaxtra Posted:

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Saw a pic of the cafe- not so much burned..but def alot of smoke and water damage... Def gonna need repairs..and with smoke..that's gonna take forever to get that smell out..

Honestly- don't stress- in the end it will all work out and your gonna have a nice time at ur shower.. just for a back up..take a peek across the street at the corner- they have a nice back room for private parties... There are so many places in our area.. you will definitely find something...
Moonmist09 Posted:

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Posted by Aliaxtra

Saw a pic of the cafe- not so much burned..but def alot of smoke and water damage... Def gonna need repairs..and with smoke..that's gonna take forever to get that smell out..

Honestly- don't stress- in the end it will all work out and your gonna have a nice time at ur shower.. just for a back up..take a peek across the street at the corner- they have a nice back room for private parties... There are so many places in our area.. you will definitely find something...



do you mind telling me where you saw a picture? its not so much finding another place but finding one that has the same date available, since its so close, it not be anymore
Aliaxtra Posted:

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no not at all- it was on fb..
the place from the front of the avenue looked in tact- the windows werent broken or anything.. i dont know what the bar side looks like though cause it was blocked with firer trucks.. the apt upstairs caught on fire..not the actual store..
but from the pic- u can clearly see that the cafe is full of smoke from top to bottom..and im sure there is def gonna be ceiling and water damage..

just breathe... do u have any idea of how many ppl u are having?
Grand has a room in the back that fits about 50ppl..
i had mine at Lincontro on ditmars.. to die for...and i had about 50-60 women..

let me know if u need any other recs.
leesah85 Posted:

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Posted by BlushandBashful


Posted by HeatherLynna



Don't stress out too much!!! It is not in your hands, and I'm sure your mother and all involved will do whatever they can to work it all out for you!



This exactly!



ITA

Moonmist09 Posted:

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Posted by Aliaxtra

no not at all- it was on fb..
the place from the front of the avenue looked in tact- the windows werent broken or anything.. i dont know what the bar side looks like though cause it was blocked with firer trucks.. the apt upstairs caught on fire..not the actual store..
but from the pic- u can clearly see that the cafe is full of smoke from top to bottom..and im sure there is def gonna be ceiling and water damage..

just breathe... do u have any idea of how many ppl u are having?
Grand has a room in the back that fits about 50ppl..
i had mine at Lincontro on ditmars.. to die for...and i had about 50-60 women..

let me know if u need any other recs.



we invited about 50 women. I know that Grand has that room in the back but they weren't available in the beginning for the original date, so they are out. I love Trattoria L'Incontro - but its super expensive and out of their price range.
I just saw some pictures online on Flikr and its pretty bad.

MandMwedding Posted:

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That's crazy! I hope it all works out for you.

justnicethings Posted:

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Oh no, I heard about the fire from my cousin. Everything will work out the way it should, it always does!

Aliaxtra Posted:

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Its gonna work out- don't worry..
it doesn't hurt to ask grand again...maybe they got a cancellation..

Try also- Aegan Cove- i would even try Avenue and Plaza and even Athens has that nice area they just renovated.. they may accommodate you under the circumstances-Or even Porto Bello has a private room and there food is very good.. and honestly everyone is dying for buisness right now.. I hope I'm helping and not stressing u more- But keep ur chin up..Its gonna work out and its gonna be FAB!
Moonmist09 Posted:

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Posted by Aliaxtra

Its gonna work out- don't worry..
it doesn't hurt to ask grand again...maybe they got a cancellation..

Try also- Aegan Cove- i would even try Avenue and Plaza and even Athens has that nice area they just renovated.. they may accommodate you under the circumstances-Or even Porto Bello has a private room and there food is very good.. and honestly everyone is dying for buisness right now.. I hope I'm helping and not stressing u more- But keep ur chin up..Its gonna work out and its gonna be FAB!



thank you, i appreciate all the help!
I think my mom is going to go after work today to two other restaurants, Bartolino's and Ponticello, both on Broadway. Hopefully one of them will have my original date available! Since its communion season - i hope it not already booked!
itbroi805 Posted:

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Richiesgirl Posted:

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aww are you talking about Flo? I am an Astorian so I knew right away. I have a few places in mind if you want to FM me that I know would have availabilities.

Moonmist09 Posted:

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Posted by Richiesgirl

aww are you talking about Flo? I am an Astorian so I knew right away. I have a few places in mind if you want to FM me that I know would have availabilities.



yes please! that would be fantastic! for May 1st
Chelechel1 Posted:

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I hope everything works out for and for the people who own the business.
Hopefully it won't be too expensive for them to fix
I can't even imagine what a financial blow this could be for them

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