Bridal SHower Drama

Bridal SHower Drama

Re: Bridal SHower Drama

You picked your BMs for a reason, because you want them to be part of your special day. I know that sounds cliche, but it's the truth. Would you really have picked other people if you knew they would throw you a huge shower? Maybe your sister isn't taking into the fact everyone's financial situations. No one will have the perfect BP, but maybe give her suggestions as to where you can have your shower aside from a restaurant to help with the cost of things. It might make the rest of the BMs more responsive and more willing to help out.

Re: Bridal SHower Drama

i heard AFTER my shower about all the drama & complaining that went on with my bm's....and my mom made a very good point ....she told me to remind myself that the bottom line is - they are just in a different point in their lives right now than you are - it doesn't make them a bad person or means that they don't think your wedding is important ....they are still the best friends that they were when u chose them to be your bm's and honor you on your day....and hopefully they'll understand one day when they get married!!!! They just have different priorities because it's not their wedding....just remember that u chose them for a reason! when ur wedding gets here you'll remember why you chose each of them and all this will pass!