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Bridal Shower Help - From Groom

groom Posted:

Bridal Shower Help - From Groom

Hi all! I've offered to help my future Mother-in-Law with the planning of my fiance's shower. We are looking for a venue that follows a victorian/teaparty-esque theme. The only thing that came to mind was the Three Village Inn which is already booked for our proposed dates. Can anyone who may have already had their shower help with ideas based on your experiences? We are looking to cap the price at about $25-$30/head with between 70 and 100 people invited. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!!
prncssrachel Posted:

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I was looking for something similar for my sister's shower with the same number of guests and for the same price. I did not, however, find anywhere that could really accomodate that many people. Maybe the East Winds because they have that old room that is Victorian themed, but they are 35 a head. I'll keep thinking and get back to you.
Oh, what about the Country House in Stony Brook. It's probably expensive, though.
allure Posted:

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The Gatsby in East Islip
wc0143 Posted:

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I have no suggestions, just stunned the screen name 'groom' was available!


soon2bmrs2004 Posted:

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Posted by allure

The Gatsby in East Islip



Ditto
MegLehner Posted:

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My shower was at La Grange. It was a champagne brunch and I think it cost $40/45 per person. But maybe a tea party would be less $. The staff and food was really good!

Empire State Posted:

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the irish coffee pub or house--not sure of the name. it's in islip.

shamrock12472 Posted:

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Try the Garden Grill in Smithtown... very victorian and they do a lot of showers. The food is fantastic!

groom Posted:

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All good ideas, thanks brides! The Gatsby was actually suggessted, but they are all booked up on that day already. I will attempt to look into the others. Just a note, we just want the theme to be tea partyish, we plan on havhing it as a brunch/luncheon. THanks so much for your help!! Do you know if price is dependant on Saturday/Sunday affairs?

BTW, yes, I also was surprised that the name groom was available. I tried to keep it generic but that was the first try at a name. Don't tell my fiance' that I've been poking around on here... don't want to give her any ideas about her shower, haha.

Perhpas others will have more ideas, I'll continue to check back.

Thanks, Groom
Preshy7 Posted:

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Posted by allure

The Gatsby in East Islip



I agree
Mishu Posted:

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Posted by prncssrachel

Oh, what about the Country House in Stony Brook. It's probably expensive, though.



I went looking at them for our rehersal dinner...pretty location however they wanted 65 bucks for approx 35 people ..then the guy said ok 55


it still seemed like alot...my mom said they were around the same price for the shower (which was approx 65 people)



hope this helps
nov2004bride Posted:

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Posted by Empire State

the irish coffee pub or house--not sure of the name. it's in islip.



That is where mine was. It was great. The food was awesome and the room was huge. Good Luck
SomethingBlu Posted:

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No suggestions just wanted to congratulate you on being such an involved fi! Your FW is a lucky gal! Welcome!
btrflygrl Posted:

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Posted by shamrock12472

Try the Garden Grill in Smithtown... very victorian and they do a lot of showers. The food is fantastic!



I second this place!!! If you have enough people, you get the entire upstairs which is private. They have a smaller room downstairs, but aim for the upstairs!
traceyd Posted:

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Posted by prncssrachel


Oh, what about the Country House in Stony Brook. It's probably expensive, though.



I don't know what the prices are there but that is where my FH proposed and I think it is simply beautiful-definately something to look into!

By the way congrats to your FW lucky woman that you want to be so involved
sunshyne21723 Posted:

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Posted by nov2004bride


Posted by Empire State

the irish coffee pub or house--not sure of the name. it's in islip.



That is where mine was. It was great. The food was awesome and the room was huge. Good Luck



OMG this place is great! I threw my sisters bridal shower there and EVERYONE loved it! The food is amazing and the service is great as well. It ran me about $25ish per person and they were more than helpful! Irish Coffee Pub
12-3Princess Posted:

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Posted by SomethingBlu

No suggestions just wanted to congratulate you on being such an involved fi! Your FW is a lucky gal! Welcome!



ditto!
groom Posted:

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Hi again brides... well, good news, my future mother-in-law found and booked a place today so for now my work here is done... The Maine Maid Inn in Jericho is the place. From what I hear, it sounds ideal and the date worked out perfectly!! I do appreciate all your thoughts and ideas. And also, thanks for your kind words of my involvement. She is to be my wife, so why would I not be involved in things that will bring her happiness?

Some of the girls in her party have already come to me asking my ideas and opinions of bachelorette party thoughts so who knows... I may be probing for some other thoughts and opinions as well based on all your experiences again...

Thanks again!
Groom

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