Bridal Shower n Bparty the same week as my wedding vent!!!!!!!!

Noelsgirl Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:04 AM

Bridal Shower n Bparty the same week as my wedding vent!!!!!!!!

My sister, MOH and mother want to have my bridal shower the same week as my wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then they want to have my bparty the night after

They claim it's because I have soo many OOT guest!!! At this point, I rather them not have a bridal shower for me!!!!!!!

Ughh I hate my Bridal party!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

heathery72 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:06 AM

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ugh! that's crazy

Golden Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:07 AM

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Yeah that's ridiculous. Could you explain to them that the week of is going to be so busy that you're not going to have the time to have two events in addition to your wedding? Did you speak to any of them? What'd they say?

MrsC2010 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:08 AM

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eek that sounds like a lot in the week before your wedding....you might have a lot of other stuff to do. Can you ask them to do it even the week before?

KatieG2010 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:10 AM

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that's CRAZYY!!!!!!

Noelsgirl Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:13 AM

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Posted by Golden

Yeah that's ridiculous. Could you explain to them that the week of is going to be so busy that you're not going to have the time to have two events in addition to your wedding? Did you speak to any of them? What'd they say?

I did tell my sister and my mom, but they don't care. My sister lives in Florida and my MOH lives in England (Moh is coming on the 29th of April). My sister is coming 3 days before my wedding and that's when she wants to keep my shower!!! I told her that i am working that day, I have to pick up my dress, I have to drop stuff off at the RH. But she doesn't get it! None of them have ever planned a wedding before.

Ray8183 Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:13 AM

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halfbaked Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:14 AM

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I wouldn't want that either. I'd rather not have a shower at all!

Golden Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:15 AM

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Posted by Noelsgirl

Posted by Golden

Yeah that's ridiculous. Could you explain to them that the week of is going to be so busy that you're not going to have the time to have two events in addition to your wedding? Did you speak to any of them? What'd they say?

I did tell my sister and my mom, but they don't care. My sister lives in Florida and my MOH lives in England (Moh is coming on the 29th of April). My sister is coming 3 days before my wedding and that's when she wants to keep my shower!!! I told her that i am working that day, I have to pick up my dress, I have to drop stuff off at the RH. But she doesn't get it! None of them have ever planned a wedding before.

Oh man, I'm sorry you have to go through this!

Noelsgirl Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:15 AM

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Posted by MrsC2010

eek that sounds like a lot in the week before your wedding....you might have a lot of other stuff to do. Can you ask them to do it even the week before?

I have asked them, but they insist on keeping it then. I told them the week before will be better, but they don't understand. They think that I don't have anything much to do and if there is any running around to do they can do it!!!

AdriandSteve Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:16 AM

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mzmahagony Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:22 AM

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I can help you plan it and we can have it the week before....your sis and ur MOH doesnt have to be there just because they are in th ebridal party. 2 of my BMs won't be at mine either and that is fine...I think once they see that we started planning it without them, they might jump on board.

Noelsgirl Posted: Apr 05, 2010 10:41 AM

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Posted by mzmahagony

I can help you plan it and we can have it the week before....your sis and ur MOH doesnt have to be there just because they are in th ebridal party. 2 of my BMs won't be at mine either and that is fine...I think once they see that we started planning it without them, they might jump on board.

I don't know. I have too much on my plate right now to plan my own shower. At this point I don't want to have a bridal shower anymore!