Bridal Shower plans

I think this is such a bad thing to do as a bride. i want to find out the details of my SUPRISE shower. My sis, FSL, and mom think Iam crazy. They want me to sit back a relax but I want to know the details
HELP

I think you should sit back and relax because I know about my shower and all of their plans for it. I am kind of bummed out because I was hoping for a surprise. So I guess either way we all have issues with our showers.