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Bridal Shower question

2009wedding Posted:

Bridal Shower question

Where do you put that kids are not invited on the shower invites? She my mother is throwing me my shower and we do not want any kids there nor do we feel that we should have to have the kids there. The only child that is invited to my shower is my flower girl that is because she is in my bridal party. We want to make sure that everyone knows that only the adults are invited and we want to make sure that everyone knows that so no one brings there children and says well I was never told that children were not invited. Please help
JJC Posted:

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I would assume just addressing it to one name would be enough....hopefully! LOL

2009wedding Posted:

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I am not sure if that will work with my fsil. She will play dumb and say she never say that. I want it know no kids at the shower. I know that is it is not spelled out my mother will be dealing with some issues that day and I do not want anyone or anything to wreck this. My Mom is going to all ends to make this special for me and I do not want it wrecked or her to get upset that someone always has to have her way.

JJC Posted:

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Posted by 2009wedding

I am not sure if that will work with my fsil. She will play dumb and say she never say that. I want it know no kids at the shower. I know that is it is not spelled out my mother will be dealing with some issues that day and I do not want anyone or anything to wreck this. My Mom is going to all ends to make this special for me and I do not want it wrecked or her to get upset that someone always has to have her way.



well, if you're really worried about this then I guess you're gonna have to incorporate it into the invitaiton...like actually write..adults only
2009wedding Posted:

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How would we do that? I think my Mom already ordered the invitations.

JJC Posted:

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oh boy...well then maybe when people rsvp she'll have to tell them..is it just the fsil you're worrying aobut or a lot more ?

2009wedding Posted:

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It is mainly my fsil getting her way but I know I am also worried about my family bring there children and then that upsetting my fh's family and causing a fight between my family and his family that is why I am saying my mother and I do not want any children at my shower. We are having them at the wedding if they want to bring there children but we do not want them at my shower. We want my shower to be adults only. We want the ladies to enjoy themselves and to have fun.

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