Bridal Shower Questions....

So every Bridal shower i have ever attended has been a surprise....So when my mon asked whether or not i wanted to be surprised...i said NO...i want to help with the planning.
Soooooo....since i know about it....should i be at the restaurant when all the guests arrive....or should i arrive a little later??? Is it weird that i wanted to help with the planning???

ALSO....need help with BS Favors....any ideas?? What have you gotten in the past....what did you give away for yours.

Where can I find a NON cheesy wishing well???

Thanks!

I know all about my shower and am involved in the planning. FH and I booked the venue actually.

I plan on being there when the guests arrive, might as well be since I know about it! Most of my bridal party is from OOT so they will be with me as well (that's the reason why I know, since they are going to be in town, my mom wanted me to be able to spend as much time with them as possible).

My mom wanted to give out compact mirrors as the favor so we went to Wrap WIth Us and got some nice ones. They are little hearts and were reasonably priced.

Other things I've gotten at bridal showers were wine toppers, candy, nailpolish and personalized emory boards, and little picture frames.