bridal shower seating..

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:33 AM

bridal shower seating..

does the BP have to sit with the B2B? has anyone been to a shower that didn't have some sort of dais?

nylisa Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:37 AM

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At my shower, my BMs sat with me at the dias but I have been at a shower where the bridal sat with her family and the BMs sat among the guests.

CaCRmr Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:38 AM

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I had my cousins shower at a Chinese restaurant and we didn't sit with her. There was no dias. I only have 2 in my BP, I hope they sit with me.

aimerliny Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:39 AM

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I've been to lots of showers where there was no dais. And I've been the BP at showers for both. TO be honest, I prefer not to sit at a dais. It's more enjoyable to sit at a table with other people, and then just get up when it comes time to open gifts, play games, etc.

Kriss2c Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:40 AM

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Oops.... nevermind.... I thought you meant weddings. Need more coffee.

wc0143 Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:40 AM

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I didn't really 'sit' anywhere. When I arrived people had already eaten. I sat at an empty seat with my friends to have a bite, then spent the rest of my time opening gifts then mingling from table to table.

TwoBugs Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:41 AM

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I didn't have a dais. My BP sat next to me at a big table with the rest of the guests.

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:42 AM

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Posted by Kriss2c

Oops.... nevermind.... I thought you meant weddings. Need more coffee.

Hey! My quote just changed...I was about to yell at you to wake up and read the posts better

cluelessbride Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:43 AM

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Oh God I hope I don't have a dais! I hate being the center of attention. I also hope everyone can sit where they like.

tourist Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:44 AM

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I as in a BP & there was no dais.

The bride sat with us at a regular table.The other oen I went to when I was a guest, I don't actually remember the bride sitting much at all.
I think she was with her bridal party.

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:44 AM

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I can't decide what to tell my Mom to do...I have twelve girls in my BP!

tourist Posted: Jul 15, 2004 09:48 AM

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Well, I guess it depends on how many people the tables seat.
If you have to out them at 2 table, I could see not wanting to chose between them. Mayeb it would be better if you just sat with family.