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Is this an either/or situation??? I feel like thus is two completely different types of events! My 'wedding planner' says that customarily its one or the other....anyone else feel the same?
Your wedding planner said it's usually either one or the other? I've actually never heard of that. Every one of my friends that got married had both
Lol that's what i thought!! That's why i said 'wedding planner' because the only wedding she's planned was her own and she wants to start a wedding planning business so i agreed to give her the experience....for free lollol
one or the other? really i totally disagree..they are two totally different things..everyone i know has had both...
No, most people have both! The shower can be a big surprise if you want that , and a friend of mine even had the bachelorette be a sort of surprise (she knew when but didn't plan any of it). That was hard on us (the bridesmaids) but typically the shower is a surprise and not the bach party. But really you can do whatever you want. My shower won't be a surprise.
Usually its both. unless who ever is throwing it is on a really really tight bidget..
I never heard of either or. In my experience all the girls I know that have gotten married had both.
Posted by fdnybride163
you better fire your wedding planner then!
Bridal shower is to give gifts and spend the day talking w the old married ladies of the familysophisticated and classy....
the bach party is the down and dirtygirls only and usualy involving flowing alcohol and a peen or two
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Posted by LisaReyes
Posted by fdnybride163
you better fire your wedding planner then!
Bridal shower is to give gifts and spend the day talking w the old married ladies of the familysophisticated and classy....
the bach party is the down and dirtygirls only and usualy involving flowing alcohol and a peen or two
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Agreed! Do both!
Posted by jf418
Posted by LisaReyes
Posted by fdnybride163
you better fire your wedding planner then!
Bridal shower is to give gifts and spend the day talking w the old married ladies of the familysophisticated and classy....
the bach party is the down and dirtygirls only and usualy involving flowing alcohol and a peen or two
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Agreed! Do both!
ITA... shower is for family/friends/gma bachelorette is for your girlfriends & alcohol![]()
That is wrong. Well back i the day women didnt really have bachelorette party that was more the guys thing. Women would have a shower along with entertainment at the shower like lingerie stripper etc. it wouldnt be two separate events but thats old school! I wouldnt want the older folks around lmao. Thats why they are two sparate things
Posted by fdnybride163
you better fire your wedding planner then!
Bridal shower is to give gifts and spend the day talking w the old married ladies of the familysophisticated and classy....
the bach party is the down and dirtygirls only and usualy involving flowing alcohol and a peen or two
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Posted by nyrvixen
Your wedding planner said it's usually either one or the other? I've actually never heard of that. Every one of my friends that got married had both
Both!
It depends on the finances of whomever is planning the events but usually the bride has a shower & the bparty. In 2012 you can do whatever makes you happy.
have both!!! dont listen to ur planner, obviously she hasnt planned enought to know what she is talking about
Posted by jangelz9
Lol that's what i thought!! That's why i said 'wedding planner' because the only wedding she's planned was her own and she wants to start a wedding planning business so i agreed to give her the experience....for free lollol
