You should try to stay out of the middle. Bad to be involved in planning your own shower....I got sucked in a little on mine and I was sooo upset. Finally, my dad stepped in and did the whole thing!
Put your mom in touch w/your MoH....they can figure it out.
Even in Feb, I'm sure you'll be OK. I know it feels like so many things are happening at once and can be overwhelming - but its a fun ride and you only do it once (or at the very least, once fo r the first time) and you should enjoy it. I was overwhelmed at my shower by all the love and generosity of my friends and family.....just remember to stop and smell the roses. :o)
Karen
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Bridal Shower horrors
Yuck - how horrible. I'm so sorry....
My shower was last weekend- on sat. A surprise on who was there- and almost a surprise in total..but I had an idea- not confirmed- that is was happening. Still was very emotional and overwhelmed.
since there was only 4 weeks until the wed, I know it was coming soon. Well this sat- I moved into our new home. so there are only 2 weeks b4 our big day.
fortzando
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horrors
Is it possible that she is telling the truth...?? some freaky postal mystery ?? If not, I'm sorry to hear that your MOH is behaving this way. I am glad to hear you are marrying into a family of women who will step up to make your bridal experience all that it should be. Hang in there. Try not to take on added stress right now (i.e., confronting her with what really happened) if you are going to discuss it with her, better to do it when you are under less pressure, after you are married...Good luck. Im sure your shower by your SILs will be terrific!
Home is in Long Beach..nice 2 fam..now we are up to our ears in boxes!! haha! and that doesnt' include our shower gifts- still at the MIL house.
