Is anyone else second guessing and really hating their choices for their bridemaids? I picked my two sil's and i really really regret it.. they have been nothign but problems and have caused me so many issues!! ahhhh!!!!!!!!!
cdh2672
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I'm sorry you are having these issues! I decided to only having my sister as MOH, no bridemaids, and I haven't regretted it --- I hope it gets better for you!
jojo07135
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i should have done that!!
fdnybride163
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this is why a lot of people wait a little bit to see who has stepped up and will be there for you, and not just ask on a whim
2013Bride
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Posted by cdh2672
I'm sorry you are having these issues! I decided to only having my sister as MOH, no bridemaids, and I haven't regretted it --- I hope it gets better for you!
Me too, but my best friend of 25 years is my MOH! I don't regret it at all.
Rivera2be
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This is why I decided to keep it small. Just my awesome MOH and my SIL (brother's wife). Sorry you're having trouble!
Jenna13
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I originally had 6. I now have 5, I know what you mean.
Bride2Be78
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I picked my girls really early which in some people eyes they say its a no no. So far no major issues (knock on wood). However, all of my girls are related to me or close friends. No one fromFH side.
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Joann, I am really glad you posted this on here to and not just FB, I was going to comment on FB, but didn't know if anyone (my BM) could see my wall or whatever.
My FSIL has done nothing so far, and yesterday made a BIG stink about not being invited with a guest to the wedding, when she doesnt have a boyfriend, but is 'seeing' someone right now. So she told FH yesterday that she just might not come to the wedding b/c of this... ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? shes in my bridal party!! ugh if I only knew back then, what I know now. I have 2 others I'd like to give the boot to as well, bc again they haven't done a thing and actually haven't spoken to me in a few weeks. sorry to vent on your post!!
adele and mark 2013
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This has caused a few problems with me and my FI and my parents. I can't wait for the planning process to become fun and not start a fight between me a FI everytime we talk wedding! *Sorry to vent on your thread.
Courtz
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I think I'll be ok... but I haven't asked yet. I'm more worried about FH and that's why we aren't asking anyone just yet.
LisaReyes
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I haven't had any problems yet - and I picked my girls 18 months before the wedding. I was a little nervous, because I asked my little sister to be my MOH and she's only 15, but she has been AMAZING so far. She does more than I could ask for - and the other ladies have stepped up to plan the bachelorette party, since she's such a youngin'
