I have started looking at dresses months ago. I have finally found one that Ilove, the color(celadon) the style empire waste. The dress is very plain but yet elegant. I showed some of the girls and I cant tell if they like it or not. Should i give them multiple choices.
jessandjimiswedding
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i gave my BM's 3 choices and luckily they all agreed on the same one!
MF9282
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Luckily we all agreed on the same one. If you absolutely LOVE it I say no need to give an option but if you fnd a second you love just as much sure why not . Good luck!!
kyzur5
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I went with my MOH to choose the BM's dresses, luckily my BM's liked the dress. If you give the girls options and they don't agree you might have a problem, if you think they have similiar tastes then go for it. I found it easier to chose the dress for them. If you like the dress and really want the BM's to wear it go for it.
TNT
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I am trying so hard to be considerate of the price of the gowns, the store so they dont have to travel. I myself have been looking for months, and i finally found it. I am going to try to post it on here for you all to see. When should i order them? I still ahve time right?
Future Mrs.
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don't give multiple choices!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take that from me b/c I did that and it was a NIGHTMARE. It is inevitable that everyone will want something different. Choose the one that YOU like best and you think will be most flattering on the bodies. Trust me! It's very considerate of you to think that way, but it could backfire and cause more stress than necessary. If you found something you like (and it sounds like you did!) then go with it!
iamvocal72
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in terms of time it all depends on the shop and the maker. I really wouldn't delay. Just order them - get the girls measured and get them ordered.
Due to price and taste issues I had all my girls choose whichever top they wanted from the impressions separates line. I have 7 girls with very different bodies and I felt that was the most fair way to go. Now they have neat little tops to wear out at night with jeans!
I am not concerned about everyone matching but that is just me. Most women want everyone to look the same or close to it and I understand that. It looks so nice but I never really had that option. I am the most laid back bride I know! I really, truly don't care as long as it's chocolate brown and long!
So, anyway, don't stress it, don't give options if you don't want to and get those dresses ordered!
