Bridesmaid gifts

Some questions;

Approximately how much should I spend on a gift for each bridesmaid?
Do the gifts have to be the same for each person?
How much more should I spend on the Maid of Honor?
Is it appropriate/acceptable to make the gift an activity that we all do together, such as a day at a spa or a tour of the wineries?

Thanks so much! I'm new and clueless.

I think a day out sounds great.

All the weddings I have been in the bride gave us our jewelry to wear the day of as her gift.

I think a day out together is a great idea.
I am going to probably do the spa with my MOH and then buy each girl their Day of jewelry, a tote bag, flip flops and some bath and body works stuff. ON top of the BP dinner I am doing.
I dont think there is really a specific amount to spend on each, its whatever you feel you can afford and what you would like to get them

thats sounds like a really nice idea, it would be really fun to spend the day together get massages and spa treatments

Some questions;

Approximately how much should I spend on a gift for each bridesmaid?

i dont know how much you should spend, but i spent around $120 on each girl

Do the gifts have to be the same for each person?

the gifts dont have to be the same, you can buy them to match they personalities. mine were the same bc it was easier and then nobody felt like anyone else got something better. my MOH got a little something extra


How much more should I spend on the Maid of Honor?

i got my MOH a coach wristlet as her extra gift.

Is it appropriate/acceptable to make the gift an activity that we all do together, such as a day at a spa or a tour of the wineries?

an activity gift would be fun! if you think all of your BMs would enjoy that kind of day together, then go for it!

everyone spends different amounts on their BMs as we all have different budgets and thughts about what we should spend.