Bridesmaid hair question

Sweeteey51 Posted: May 15, 2009 07:46 PM

Bridesmaid hair question

Are any of you telling them how to wear there hair? Im on the fence about it, cant decide.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 15, 2009 07:49 PM

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absolutely not...i want them to feel comfortable and beautiful...who am it o tell them how they have to wear their hair.. I want them to look like themselves! JMO

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: May 15, 2009 07:50 PM

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no, not at all... they can do whatever they want with it as long as its done professionally

Sweeteey51 Posted: May 15, 2009 07:56 PM

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okay thankkkkk you. thats what i was trying to tell my mother lol. I just dont feel right asking them that and i dont want them to look like drones in the pictures. And i dont want them to spend extra money for hair.

twoifbysea Posted: May 15, 2009 08:10 PM

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Nahhh... some of my BM have mentioned that they want half up half down (which is what I wanted originally) but honestly in the end it's not like they're going to 'take away' from the bride if they have a similar hair style. I would be really angry if a bride told me how to wear my hair so I'm trying to keep that in mind.

The only 'rule' is NO prom hairdos (I hate that pile of curls on top with slicked back sides with curly streamers on the sides).

geegee827 Posted: May 15, 2009 09:01 PM

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nope - I have three BMs. My 2 sisters and FSIL. My 2 sisters both have long hair, FSIL has short, short hair.

They are all beautiful women and should be comfortable. I want them smiling and confident in my pictures.

ttdiff11 Posted: May 15, 2009 09:30 PM

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no not at all, i want them to feel comfortable

gina409 Posted: May 15, 2009 09:31 PM

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im not..everyone has diff styles so ill let tem do what they want..i dont want little robots following me down the aisle that all look alike

Jennmolloy Posted: May 15, 2009 09:44 PM

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I am not my range in age is large so I don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable.

kristentinnelly Posted: May 16, 2009 12:50 AM

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Not at all. I want the girls to do whatever they want this way they are comfortable with it. Plus it shows thier seperate personalities

MoochsWifey Posted: May 16, 2009 02:00 AM

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Just no prom hair and I asked if everyone would be OK with wearing it all up and no one had a problem with it.

MrsCM Posted: May 16, 2009 02:14 AM

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Originally they were all going to do their own hair since each of them have very different styles. But lately I've been thinking of having my hair stylist put them in a neat french braid with some whisps in the front.

MirabellaNYC Posted: May 16, 2009 07:55 AM

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No way-I believe grown women should wear their hair and makeup as they please. I don't want my BM's looking like they're in a dance recital.

allegracristina Posted: May 16, 2009 08:47 AM

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I am NOT telling them how to wear their hair! That's just not me. They are 8 different women! All with very different hair. I am not telling them how to wear their hair, or making them all get the same shoe. The shoe just needs to be gold or black patent.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: May 16, 2009 09:51 AM

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I'm just asking that it's not identical to mine...other than that, I don't care how they do it.

Shellymd Posted: May 16, 2009 10:01 AM

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I would never tell my BM's how to wear their hair and I would hope nobody would ever tell me! Its rude to tell them to pay for their hair and then give them the exact style JMO

springsandra Posted: May 16, 2009 10:10 AM

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If you have a hair piece you want them all to wear or were going to give them, you could bounce it off them and see what they think. Or if you're going to have them put flowers in their hair or something.

But I agree with everyone else (and you, from what I see) that I wouldn't dictate about it.

I'm not even telling my BMs what shoes to wear! I hate the idea of them having to spend more money just to match exactly. The dress will be enough to me.

As far as hair goes, their hair is sooooo different (my MOH is asian, my BM is not) that it would be silly to try to get them to match.

But I will be the only one wearing a veil!!

GT143EA Posted: May 16, 2009 10:13 AM

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Nope. If they want their hair done they can get it done. If not they can do it themselves. Its totally up to them.

debzy Posted: May 16, 2009 10:32 AM

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

absolutely not...i want them to feel comfortable and beautiful...who am it o tell them how they have to wear their hair.. I want them to look like themselves! JMO

ITA...couldn't have said it better myself.

Amberrenee6705 Posted: May 16, 2009 01:42 PM

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I, as a previous bridesmaid, cant stand having to wear my hair a certain way....so of course I didnt ask my girls to. I want them to feel comfortable and beautiful too :o). I did let them know NO crazy stuff though. We're all going together to get our hair done so it wont be a problem