If I am hosting a lunch for my bridesmaids, (taking them out actually) are the mom's supposed to come?? My FMIL just flat out asked me if #1 I was hosting one (because she obviously has no faith in my ability to show some class), and #2 is she invited.
NovemberSue
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Its up to you. I had all the bridesmaids meet one time to pick out their dresses and then I bought them all lunch. I didn't ask the moms to come to that. I asked the moms to come with me for my dress and the fitting and we went out to lunch. I tried to pay but my mom fought me and won. She refused to let me pay.
Misty
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Hmm..I'm going this weekend to get my BM dresses. Is it rude of me to not take them this weekend?
NovemberSue
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Its up to you. I didn't bring the moms when the bridesmaids went to pick out their dresses because I think it would have been too many people and too many opinions. I just wanted it to be the bridesmaids and my little get together. You do whatever you want. You can bring the moms when you go for your dress.
michele31
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Moms are often invited to BM luncheons but it is not a must- it is up to the bride and her budget. I wanted to do a bridal tea but my BMs have stolen my idea and since I didn't want a traditional bachlorette party they have decided to do that for me. Now I will just get them an additional gift for their spa boxes.
SeptemberBride03
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I like the idea of spending time with just the BM. But, I will invite my mom, my FH mom and stepmom. My mom is helping with the shower and doing just as much, if not more, than by BM and I feel she should be thanked just as much as them. And, b/c I'm inviting her I don't want to leave out my FHs moms.
Are you telling your BM ahead of time - or is it a surprise?? Mine all live out of town, so I'm going to do it the day before the weddig when they're here after we get our manicures. Should I tell them now?
OctBride03
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Hi, I have a quick question... When I first got engaged, my MOH said she wanted to throw me a bridal luncheon... is the Bride the one who is supposed to pay? I am so confused But to answer the question about the moms, when my MOH mentioned the luncheon, she said it was just a get together of JUST bridesmaids, no moms... I dont know if that helps any
michele31
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The bride pays for the bridal luncheon- she is hosting it as a way of thanking her BMs. According to the etiquette books that I read moms MAY be invited, but are not required to be invited.
paula29
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Michele31... sorry to interrupt, but I was curious about something you said.. what is a spa box?? sounds very interesting!
