Bridesmaid Rant..UPDATED!!!

So, my sister finally got an e-mail back from my best friend. She doesn't want to do the idea that she & my FSIL have. She wants something cheezy according to my sister! If she had finances then she should of told me in the begining why wait 3 months before I am ready to get married. I am so sick of her ways....My poor sister is stressing so much over this and I don't need my FSIL to stress over this to especially when she is pregnant! So I took matters into my own hands. I wrote her and told her I have overheard that there seems to be a problem with planning the shower and how heard she has been uncooperative...I felt like I need to step in and at this point I don't care..she has one week for an improvement if nothing has changed I am dismissing her..

Btw, she told my sister that she doesn't want to hear anything about my wedding because she is depressed of being alone. How rude for her to say that!

What do you all think? Do you think I am overeacting? My best friend of all people knows I have been waiting for this moment for a long time and now..why can't she be happy for me??

If she is your best friend she should be beyond happy for you! I would tell her she is not being any kind of friend by what she is saying. This is not how you would act if the roles were reverse. Tell her to grow up!

OMG First off I understand your pain because Im going through a similar situation except my mom is doing my bridal shower and only two of my BM are helping her out. My MOH who is supposed to be my best friend said its not her responsibilty to help plan my shower and she refuses to help my mom out. Im so p.o. at her right now.

Second I can't believe your best friend said that. She is being very selfish and should be nothing but happy for you. I cant take it when people only think of themselves!!! I think you should speak with her and see if she still wants to be in your bridal party. You shouldnt have to worry about something like this.

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Posted by FtrMrsV

OMG First off I understand your pain because Im going through a similar situation except my mom is doing my bridal shower and only two of my BM are helping her out. My MOH who is supposed to be my best friend said its not her responsibilty to help plan my shower and she refuses to help my mom out. Im so p.o. at her right now.

Second I can't believe your best friend said that. She is being very selfish and should be nothing but happy for you. I cant take it when people only think of themselves!!! I think you should speak with her and see if she still wants to be in your bridal party. You shouldnt have to worry about something like this.

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OMG!!! That is terrible!!!! At least I know that I am not alone here. She did read the e-mail and didn't write back...she called me. And she was blaming my sister for everything saying that she is getting in the way of our friendship..I don't see it like that. Needless to say I found out the price. $166. She said she can only give $100. She is fighting over $66??? That's crazy!!! She knew what came along with being a bridesmaid in my wedding. If she out some $$ away since October she would have it!!! GRRRRR..I swear!

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Posted by Two Peas

Sounds like your friend needs to get over herself and realize this isn't all about her...Some people are just so self involved...I think you are doing the right thing.

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Well now after my mom wrote her an e-mail she writes back and says she can go with her and my sister to my FSIL house at 8pm?? Are you kidding me?? They were going to look at the place! She claims it is her mothers birthday this weekend and that's why she is coming to Shirley...correction she told me she was coming to Shirley for a Baby Shower..nothing about her mom's birthday. I told my mom to go without her..do things without her, cause I have had it!! She is stressing me out to a point here!