Bridesmaid Regrets?

So how many of you out there regret one or more of your choices for your BM's?

I never in a million years would have seen this coming, but my MOH has completely flaked out on me. She never once came dress shopping with me (too busy) and now for over 3 full weeks has blown off all attempts to try on BM dresses. After delaying everyone else with her personal schedule she's finally decided that she's not going to come with us after all & will just look at dresses on her own time, at a location more convenient to her. i just can't believe she's being so difficult & I so wish I never picked her to be in the BP, let alone the MOH! What have I done

I have kind of regretted one of my choices....HOWEVER! I think that is a natural reaction that we all feel at one point or another....I've read plenty of times on here where brides have had a discussion with their MOH and they were able to pull it together! Good luck!

thanks- i should have a talk with her... i just hate confrontations

daily....

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Posted by EastEndBride

So how many of you out there regret one or more of your choices for your BM's?

I never in a million years would have seen this coming, but my MOH has completely flaked out on me. She never once came dress shopping with me (too busy) and now for over 3 full weeks has blown off all attempts to try on BM dresses. After delaying everyone else with her personal schedule she's finally decided that she's not going to come with us after all & will just look at dresses on her own time, at a location more convenient to her. i just can't believe she's being so difficult & I so wish I never picked her to be in the BP, let alone the MOH! What have I done

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aww, that is not very nice. You should speak with her about it. I haven't had thoughts like that yet. I hope everything works out with you. Is she a close friend of us???

My MOH and BMs are my sisters, so they have no choice!

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Posted by EastEndBride

So how many of you out there regret one or more of your choices for your BM's?

I never in a million years would have seen this coming, but my MOH has completely flaked out on me. She never once came dress shopping with me (too busy) and now for over 3 full weeks has blown off all attempts to try on BM dresses. After delaying everyone else with her personal schedule she's finally decided that she's not going to come with us after all & will just look at dresses on her own time, at a location more convenient to her. i just can't believe she's being so difficult & I so wish I never picked her to be in the BP, let alone the MOH! What have I done

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I TOTALLY agree with you!! MY MOH has been my best friend for almost 9 years. I NEVER would have thought that she'd flake or be the way she is right now. She could absolutely care less about anything to do with weddings (she's single). I wish I never picked her to be my MOH or in my bridal party either! I can completely understand!

I am so sorry that your MOH is doing this to you. You and the rest of the BP should pick out a dress and if she doesn't like it that is too bad for her. She should have went with everyone!!

DH & I only picked family to be in our BP. We did it for a number of reasons. 1-they are the most important people in our lives; 2-they would never have done anything to upset us or ruin our wedding; 3-I would not have wanted it any other way! I knew if I started to bring friends into the BP their would have been some drama. To save DH & I from that (considering we only had a 5 month engagement and I had enough stress on my hands without any added drama), so did brothers and sisters, and my 2 cousins. It was just the most perfect BP I could have ever asked for.

I often regret picking my future sister in law because she makes everything difficult. She is never happy with any choice of dress i choose. She wants a backless halter, which for a wedding, personally i dont find very elegant. Plus she does not have the figure to pull off backless lol Finally i sent her a picture of the dress my maid of honor and i chose which is flattering to all sizes and was like look this is it take it or leave it. She wasnt thrilled but at least she has shut up for now.