Bridesmaids

Have you chosen your bridesmaids yet? It's really early, so I am not going to ask yet, but I think I know who. I want to have my sister as my MOH, then my SIL (bro's wife), FSIL (FH's sis), my best friend from HS and my best friend from college. I don't want to have a lot because I don't want drama...more girls = drama!

When do you think you'll ask your bridesmaids??

I'll be asking mine at my e-party in November

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Posted by Cacarina

Have you chosen your bridesmaids yet? It's really early, so I am not going to ask yet, but I think I know who. I want to have my sister as my MOH, then my SIL (bro's wife), FSIL (FH's sis), my best friend from HS and my best friend from college. I don't want to have a lot because I don't want drama...more girls = drama!

When do you think you'll ask your bridesmaids??

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I dont want alot of drama as well. So I asked my sister, his sister and my best friend. I had two other girls in mind but that is it.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i dont plan on asking until i need them for dresses LOL i also have friends who keep coming and going in my life so i really dont even know whod i have as moh... sad, but true ....

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I totally know where you are coming from!!! I have a few friends right now who think they might be in my bridal party, but they are not true to me all the time and I just don't want fake people. That is why I am lucky to have 3 sisters in the family. I know they will always be there...(even when I don't want them to be... )

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i dont plan on asking until i need them for dresses LOL i also have friends who keep coming and going in my life so i really dont even know whod i have as moh... sad, but true ....

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I totally know where you are coming from!!! I have a few friends right now who think they might be in my bridal party, but they are not true to me all the time and I just don't want fake people. That is why I am lucky to have 3 sisters in the family. I know they will always be there...(even when I don't want them to be... )

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yea , im having my sister as my moh not only because i want to , but so that my friends wont fight and its a much easier decision for me! a few years ago i would have had a totally different bridal party than i am now. friends do come and go but the ones im asking are true and will be in my life forever....i hope

the person who i thought for yrs i would make moh... doesnt even bother to call me anymore... drops off the face of the planet until she needs something from me and decides to call... and ive pointed that out several times and she jus laughs it off... funny how people change...

I already told them....I'm an only child so my MOH is my cousin and my Bridesmaid is my other cousin (her sister) my Jr bridesmaid is my other cousin and my Flowergirl is also my cousin.....I got to include all my 1st cousins
My only male cousin is the ringbearer...thank goodness for my aunt and uncle who decided to have children later on in life so I could fill my bridal party.

I didn't want friends b/c they would just stress me out.

i had orginally started to ask my bm and moh but i came to a haulting stop when a friend of mine was SO offended that i didn't ask her to be my moh (LONG story and most of u know anyways so if u dont know and care to ask ....FM me) lol

So after all that drama i completly stopped and now im waiting till the perfect moment ( i just dont know when that is either! )

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i dont plan on asking until i need them for dresses LOL i also have friends who keep coming and going in my life so i really dont even know whod i have as moh... sad, but true ....

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I totally know where you are coming from!!! I have a few friends right now who think they might be in my bridal party, but they are not true to me all the time and I just don't want fake people. That is why I am lucky to have 3 sisters in the family. I know they will always be there...(even when I don't want them to be... )

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I completely agree.. Our relationship cahnges every couple of months but, i know they think they are in it. the only definites are my cousins and my sister

I haven't officially asked them. I kinda just said that they were in my BP...my sister is MOH, my 2 bestfriends are BM's along with FH's little sister. I think FH has mentioned it to his guys but we never did anything official. We are not having an E party. I was thinking of using my nephew for a ring bearer but I don't have any young girls in the family that I'm close enough with to ask to be a flowergirl. Also I'm not ven sure if I want kids at all. I know that will stir up quite a headache but out of the 70 people I plan to invite they have about 25-30 kids

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Posted by soonT0beMrsD

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Posted by Cacarina

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

i dont plan on asking until i need them for dresses LOL i also have friends who keep coming and going in my life so i really dont even know whod i have as moh... sad, but true ....

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I totally know where you are coming from!!! I have a few friends right now who think they might be in my bridal party, but they are not true to me all the time and I just don't want fake people. That is why I am lucky to have 3 sisters in the family. I know they will always be there...(even when I don't want them to be... )

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yea , im having my sister as my moh not only because i want to , but so that my friends wont fight and its a much easier decision for me! a few years ago i would have had a totally different bridal party than i am now. friends do come and go but the ones im asking are true and will be in my life forever....i hope

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My best friend that would be too b/c we have a friend who is really immature so she just had her sisiter... but turned around and regretted it b/c she wanted me and her sister next to her

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Posted by Jen822

basically all mine know they are lol but i wont officially ask until a year before or so

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Same here. I'm having my 2 best friends and my brothers gf/soon to be fiance.