Bridesmaids!

Hi Everyone,
So I have 2 questions:
1) Even though I have talked about who would be in my bridal party, is it silly to still send my girls a 'will you be my bridesmaid' cookie/card?

2) I have a really good friend that i want to have in my bridal party but I feel as though it is large enough already 8- ( with her 9)......what to do?

#1 - I think it depends on you and your girls. For instance, I love little details like that. I would keep it as a momento (is that how you say it? I´ve been in Ecuador so long my english is getting shaky!!) So I would love to receive it. For isstance, I am planning my wedding already without being officially engaged (long story!!) and my sister is already helping me look for potential halls. Even though, when I become oficially engaged, I will be sending her a formal invite to be my moh. I know she is like me and likes details like that. On the other hand if it was someone like my mother (extremely practical, hates cards because they take up space and flowers becausethey die) she might not appreciate it. But if you do it for one of your girls do it for all.

#2 - This depends on you. It is your day. If you really feel like you want her to be a special part of your wedding then ask her and don´t worry about it. What´s one more? Its important to be surrounded by people who you love.

That´s my opinion anyway.

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Posted by WeddingGem

#1 - I think it depends on you and your girls. For instance, I love little details like that. I would keep it as a momento (is that how you say it? I´ve been in Ecuador so long my english is getting shaky!!) So I would love to receive it. For isstance, I am planning my wedding already without being officially engaged (long story!!) and my sister is already helping me look for potential halls. Even though, when I become oficially engaged, I will be sending her a formal invite to be my moh. I know she is like me and likes details like that. On the other hand if it was someone like my mother (extremely practical, hates cards because they take up space and flowers becausethey die) she might not appreciate it. But if you do it for one of your girls do it for all.

#2 - This depends on you. It is your day. If you really feel like you want her to be a special part of your wedding then ask her and don´t worry about it. What´s one more? Its important to be surrounded by people who you love.

That´s my opinion anyway.

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ita!