I actually thought about getting them but then I wondered if it looked a little too 'pushy'....still undecided though
JMHO, I think that idea is a little pushy and could REALLY come off the wrong way.
Dont do it
I didnt do it. I saw some at Boarders but the things in there were kinda weird. I just sent them a great poem with a picture of us and aksed them to be in the wedding. If anything thats good enough!
I think you know your girls well enough how they will 'interpret' the gift. I gave them to SOME of mine--the ones that were SO excited but I knew hadn't been in any weddings so it helped to answer the 'What do I do?, What can I do to help?' Those girls LOVED the books and were definitely NOT insulted. The other girls, who HAD been in several weddings and knew the drill, I gave novels about weddings to get them in the mood. One of the best (imo) is 'The Wedding' by Nicholas Sparks.
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I think you know your girls well enough how they will 'interpret' the gift. I gave them to SOME of mine--the ones that were SO excited but I knew hadn't been in any weddings so it helped to answer the 'What do I do?, What can I do to help?' Those girls LOVED the books and were definitely NOT insulted. The other girls, who HAD been in several weddings and knew the drill, I gave novels about weddings to get them in the mood. One of the best (imo) is 'The Wedding' by Nicholas Sparks.
