So it seems my bridesmaids hate each other. They are all such strong personalities, as hard as they are trying to hide it from me, it's really upsetting me. Anyone dealing with this or have dealt with this? I need advice on how to stop worrying, I have enough to worry about!
leena07
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Im having the same issue. 2 girls that are very strong and always have to say something. You cant worry about it though. You have more important things to worry about. They should not be causing drama on your big day. Ive learned to let go of the stress. You have to!
Princess Cut Bride
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I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. I haven't experienced this problem so I really do not know what advice to give you. Maybe you can talk to them individually and tell each girl that they mean a lot to you and your FH that is why you choose them to be part of your special day but it is really important for everyone to get along. This is a happy occassion so no one should be fighting. After you speak to each girl maybe you can have a little get together...a girls night out...all drama aside...just bonding.
HTH
Snickers76
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This happened to me. It is 2 against 2. They are being very cool and keeping me in the dark about a lot of it, but I can just tell. Let them work it out. It's their problem, not yours (unless they make it yours...which i hope doesn't happen)
myranscott
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I purposely picked my BMs to avoid this. 1st -- everyone is almost 30 or older. That takes care of 90% of all fights.
2nd -- I picked mellow people. I have a few friends I'm closer with but they would just stress me out.
Remember, the reason for BMs is to help you. It is not to prove how much you like someone. Pick whoever is right for you.
faithandkevin
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Mine are fighting about my shower. FSIL I expected it from (she is over 30, so the age really didn't matter in her case)- I knew she would not get along w/ the other girls. But I'm not going to let it ruin my time! My MOH has put her in her place!
ellebelle1
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I say just let them keep you out of it and don't worry. I guarantee they all love you and will come together just for you.
Kimbalina
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I am sorry that you are going through this. Maybe the MOH can talk it out individually with the girls?
Mooshyboo
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Yes mine have been recently but now the two bad seeds are out of the wedding party I think it should be smooth sailing... my two cousins were making a little drama & were not really doing the BM thing for me and my day.... but anyhow they backed out recently...
