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Bridesmaind problem somewhat resolved!

Jkiesel Posted:

Bridesmaind problem somewhat resolved!

Update to bridesmaid problem!

For those of you who read about my bridesmaid saga with my own cousin.

I sent a letter stating that I'm concerned about her wanting to be a part of my bridal party still because I haven't heard from her. I mentioned how I left messages, voicemails, and emails, as well as my fiance doing so and wanted to here back. I told her that if she can't get back to me by May 11, then I will presume she is not interested in being my bridesmaid, so I would send her a check for the dress and find someone else who is interested in being in my party.
Oh yeah, I also let her know that the shoe thing was a misunderstanding, so if shes not going to talk to me over that then I can't see how she can play her part as a bridesmaid without speaking to the bride.

Anywho, she has 5 more days. If I don't get an answer, I'm going to ask a friend of mine who I know will not be insulted that I didn't select her first instead. Man I should have just picked this friend in the first place!
Aug07OFCbride Posted:

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Sheesh, cant believe she still hasnt gotten in touch with you. But Im glad you hear you put your foot down about it and youre not going to let it drag on any longer. Its a nightmare she put you in the position to have to do this anyways. GL w/ this!

army wife to be Posted:

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yea wow i cant believe she would do that.. shes not being very nice.. its YOUR wedding and uve got so much plannig to do!! but it'll work out and its always good to have friends so good luck!!

Kelly79 Posted:

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good luck!!!!!!

i am shocked she stil has not resolved this with you.

I am sure everything will work out for the best!!

Jkiesel Posted:

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Thanks your suggestions have been most helpful from the last posting. I kept what you said in mind when i wrote the letter. Not confrontational, yet made my point. My MOH read it before I mailed it and said it kicked @$$! Both her and FH hope I get to ask my new person instead!

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