So.. i've always been closer to guys then girls. My BEST BEST BEST friend all throughout HS and College was a guy. We talk A LOT less then we did in the past but i still consider him an important person in my life
(we stopped talking primarily because he now has a gf lol. Apparently girls don't like be being really close to their bf's even as friends. Which i kinda understand, but still he was my friend first lol)
thoughts?
soontobecruz
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I think if you want him in it, and he is cofortable doing it then it is fine. Would your FI consider havnig him as a groomsman for you, if your friend isn't comfortable being a bridesman??
Alexandra17
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I was just in a wedding with a bridesman and it was fun
MrsC2010
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fh was just in a wedding as a bm....its a girl he grew up with and they are like brother and sister. if you have a guy that is really important to you, there is nothing wrong with putting him in your bridal party!
marrymybestfriend
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i have a best friend who is a girl... and i told my fiance when we first started dating that my friend Jessica will be in our wedding party if we ever get married. she was cool with it. she has only hung out with her a hand full of times, but she is my friend. i think wedding parties should be chosen together
LaurenJosh
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I think that's fine. He is someone who means a lot to you so he should be part of your special day. And they just had a movie out about it so people will probably be more accepting to it now!
CristinanBen2010
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I think its fine. If your close why not
StaceYums81
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yeah, lots of people do this...
DWKSwed
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I have a male best friend from growing up and FH has a really close girl friend from growing up, so they will be in it but the girl will be a BM, the guy a GM. We have totally split the bridal party, half of the BM's are his (sister, friend) and half the GM's are mine (friend, sister's boyfriend). I'm not having them stand on my side or anything though but I say you should have who's important to you in the party regardless of their sex, I don't like the girl deciding girls and guy deciding guys thing - it should be a joint decision IMO.
