Bridezilla

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 13, 2010 12:49 PM

Bridezilla

We have all been there. In one way or another, we have become Bridezillas at one point. Maybe it was FMIL that ticked you off, a vendor that just brought out the worst in you or a friend. What is your biggest bridezilla moment yet?

fdnybride163 Posted: Oct 13, 2010 12:51 PM

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I have been pretty good so far, I just have mental breakdowns cause I cant find an RH that I love. And I have to worry about all my damn OTT guests (i am from CT so my fam is all from there) and we have to work around his church location in hicksville ( so most likely going out east is out for us )

allornil Posted: Oct 13, 2010 12:58 PM

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i haven't had one and i doubt i will. i tend to shrug stuff off. I'll have panic attack 5 mins before i get married though...then I'll be fine.

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Oct 13, 2010 12:59 PM

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I have little freak outs when vendors don't respond right away or if things are not clear... but i'm mostly not a bridezilla, luckily FH is so calm and doesn't get mad back!

MissingLI Posted: Oct 13, 2010 01:18 PM

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Nothing really yet. I hope I never have a moment when I'm like that. But we're coming on 4 months out pretty quick, so you never know.

celticbride Posted: Oct 13, 2010 01:20 PM

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I am 12 weeks out and have not had one yet. Don't think i will either.

FutureJOC Posted: Oct 13, 2010 01:23 PM

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I've actually been pretty solid and good. The only thing that has bought me slightly close to screaming at someone was any talk about transportation for the guests because no matter what I thought of it was good for everyone - which is when I came to my conclusion about wedding planning and it's simply this..

'You can't please everyone'

Transportation has since been resolved so no worries anymore

Lana and Johan Posted: Oct 13, 2010 02:06 PM

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I haven't been one either, but have had a few moments of insanity...

One of my Bms has been driving me insane since day one. First it was her wanting to wear her prom dress from 2000 for my wedding, then her asking if I can have short dresses, then her pushing for dressing in bloomingdales so they can return them after...the list goes on....after a while, I was like 'look do you even wanna be in the wedding?' To no fault of my own, I may have flipped out a little...LOL.

Also, I may have a bridezilla moment at the wedding in FSIL comes wearing what she wore for my sons bday....LOL. They better have 911 on speeddial...JK

VCanizalez Posted: Oct 13, 2010 02:47 PM

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I havent been a bridezilla yet....

However SOMEONE HERE said she is a Bridezilla..... I forgot who...
But i remember readin a post where she said she was a bridezilla!!!

KarynK Posted: Oct 13, 2010 02:50 PM

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I have had a minor Bridezilla moment. My parents are RV'ers. They travel in September to Arizonia for 9 months out of the year. So this year I told them they were not allowed off the east coast!
I explained I need my mother for dress shopping and my father to so we can do a special dance together.

We were in a restaurant and they jokingly said they were getting the RV ready, and very loudly I said 'Don't make me go Bridezilla on you asses!'

jettahot Posted: Oct 13, 2010 03:19 PM

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im still waiting! no zilla moments yet!

Moonmist09 Posted: Oct 13, 2010 03:19 PM

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i don't think i had mine yet....wait for it!

Mommy2BeBride Posted: Oct 13, 2010 04:32 PM

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Umm haven't had any major ones, but FMIL and I did fight many times while planning the E-party. and we fight about random wedding details. She just hates agreeing with the things I like since she doesn't like me.

evita2781 Posted: Oct 13, 2010 04:37 PM

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i wouldn't even consider mine a bridezilla moment but my stupid sisters called me one for it. we were talking bout BM dresses and they were suggesting dresses and i said i don't want it in that color and told me to calm down bridezilla - so not even close!

MrsRtoBe11 Posted: Oct 13, 2010 06:07 PM

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my bridezilla moment was when so many people were giving me opions on how to save money, and asking me all at once (future in laws) how come we are spending so much on so and so ... i lashed out and said 'if your not ofefring to pay for anything, iam not open to suggestions' (blush)

allornil Posted: Oct 13, 2010 06:10 PM

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oh wait...I lied. I had one sat which FH just reminded me of.

everyone was going on and on and on about the wedding and his uncle was egging me on and bugging me and said, 'so....what's the deal? are there plans yet?'

I said, 'not lately' and walked away.

does that count?

freaking leave me alone unless you're handing me $. seriously.

allornil Posted: Oct 13, 2010 06:12 PM

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Posted by Lana and Johan

I haven't been one either, but have had a few moments of insanity...

One of my Bms has been driving me insane since day one. First it was her wanting to wear her prom dress from 2000 for my wedding, then her asking if I can have short dresses, then her pushing for dressing in bloomingdales so they can return them after...the list goes on....after a while, I was like 'look do you even wanna be in the wedding?' To no fault of my own, I may have flipped out a little...LOL.

Also, I may have a bridezilla moment at the wedding in FSIL comes wearing what she wore for my sons bday....LOL. They better have 911 on speeddial...JK

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wait...did you say she wanted to wear her PROM DRESS? I would have gone insanely bridezilla on that one.

IrishAli Posted: Oct 13, 2010 07:27 PM

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Posted by evita2781

i wouldn't even consider mine a bridezilla moment but my stupid sisters called me one for it. we were talking bout BM dresses and they were suggesting dresses and i said i don't want it in that color and told me to calm down bridezilla - so not even close!

That is what is happening with my sister (my MOH). I gave her a color (shamrock or kelly green, depending on the company) and said to find a dress that she loves, preferably tea length or knee length. THAT'S IT! She's all 'whoa whoa Bridezilla'. Really?

I think I've been pretty calm thus far, except when my dad started getting antsy while looking at RH, and started going 'I don't even know why you want to waste your money on a wedding.' Then I burst into tears, but really, we were all just hungry and needed a beer. Or 3.

Corinne Ann Posted: Oct 13, 2010 07:28 PM

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i havent been too bad.... i think the most bridezilla thing i did was ask my bms to choose their shoes out of the 3 i picked.... i just dont want anyone wearing hooker shoes... LOL....