Brooklyn..Staten Island

I limited my search to Brooklyn or Staten island because my grandmother who lives in Brooklyn can not be in a car for very long.
Here's my list:
Brooklyn:
Rex manor-saw it, on the cheaper side but fh said looks very 80s
Dyke beach golf club- gorgeous but so out of my price range
Riveria- didn't see it but I've been to a wedding there and its beautiful
Siricos- liked it fh wasn't sold
Bay ridge manor- almost booked until we saw our venue
El caribe- didn't see it but I've heard its nice

Staten island
Island chateau- my venue, absolutely gorgeous!
The staaten- didn't see it but I've been there for a shower and it definitely needs some updating.
Above- went there for a bridal show. Nice but very expensive
Nicotras ballroom- also was there for a bridal show, also nice but expensive
The vanderbilt- was there for a sweet 16 beautiful but expensive
Grand oaks country club- gorgeous but above our price range
The excelcior grand- didn't see but I pass by it all the time and it looks nice.
Old Bermuda inn- went there forms few showers, really nice.