B!tchy Lady

at my shower, my FSIL's MIL was a biatch to my sister and my friend.....i really wish someone would have said something to her during the party - the shower was AMAZING but its still bothering me...she made my sister upset enough to almost cry and she insulted my friend as well....this was during gift opening...i really want to un-invite her to the wedding

ugh, i really want to say something to her the next time i see her.....she really pissed me off, she ruined a good 10 minutes of my opening gifts all i wanted to do was choke her.....

What could she possibly be b!tchy about??? Who is like that at a shower?? Crazy lady!!! Sounds like only a bitter woman would cause that kind of uncessary drama.

well, i can kind of see why she did what she did BUT she went about it the wrong way....

my FSIL is pregnant - about 3 months maybe a little more....

so before we started opening gifts my FSIL said that she would hand me everything, my friend was in charge of writing things down and i asked my sister to be in charge of photos - those are my 3 bridesmaids....

so presents was hectic, i got a lot of things - so my other friend, who is not a bridesmaid, was also helping and she was clearing garbage and making my shower hat....

at some point this woman goes over to my friend who i felt was already doing more than enough by helping (she isnt a bridesmaid so she didnt have to be up there with us, she was up there with us because she is a good friend) and she very rudely tells my friend to start helping more and to stop making my shower hat because my FSIL is pregnant and shouldnt be handing me gifts.....then to top it off she rudely tells my sister to put the camera down because FSIL is five months pregnant (NOT EVEN TRUE!) and to get over there and help more she isnt doing enough.....my sister went over to my mother in tears because she got yelled at and didnt know what to do, she knew i wanted her to take photos....i saw this, and told my sister to please keep taking pictures and not to listen to her (and my mom said the same thing), the woman saw me do this and started yelling from her seat in a 'cute' voice 'oh hunny, it was me, i was the one who told her to stop' like she was cute or something.....

i was so mad.....we asked FSIL if she was ok and she said she was fine and my FSIL knows that at any point she could have asked for more help - i mean she is a grown up for godsakes she doesnt need her MIL to come over and boss my friends and family around.....besides the fact that she didnt lift anything that is heavier than my 30lbs nephew

aw that was pretty bossy of her. Sorry it happened! But Im sure they are already over it.

this did not ruin my shower in any way - its just everytime i think about it my blood boils.....and this woman has a reputation for pissing people off.....i just wish someone would have told her to mind her business...she upset my sister, she upset my friend and she upset me....she upset 3 people...i just want to vent about it i guess....i wish i would have told her to sit her a$$ down and mind her business....or better yet i wish my FSIL said it

ugh, its just my sister is sensitive and it was an emotional day for us - i felt so bad that some stranger came up to her and told her to stop taking pictures and told her she wasn't doing enough - when all my sister wanted to do was make me happy and SHE WAS - except someone made her feel like she was doing something wrong............

i think im going to say something to this woman next time i see her.....i dont care if it starts a fight, im just going to say that she was very rude and hurt a lot of peoples feelings