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Budget stress!!!

Original post by Emazing17

Hey all,

So I put together a tentative Budget of around 25K including the Honeymoon our wedding will be about 100 people. As I am adding things to the list it seems like that budget is kind of unrealistic ( Its looking closer to 30K). I am begin to freak out thinking we will not be able to save enough money before the wedding! I am having some help from my Dad but we are paying for our wedding in Cash.

Did any other brides face this? How close or far from your budget did everything wind up costing? What did you do to cut down on cost??

Any answers/ advise is appreciated.
ypharmacy Posted:

Budget stress!!!

I would recommend booking a place according to the 100 people ..we originally wanted 100 people but fell in love with a place that had a minimum of 125 and had a tough time getting the minimum..that tactic alone can save you a bundle ..

haw4 Posted:

Budget stress!!!

My total budget is about yours (with tips) for 100 people. I don't feel like I missed out in anything, prett much getting everything we want, just have to find vendors who are really willing to work with you. I told my florist how much I wanted to spend per centerpiece and she made it happen! We used complete wedding packages in east meadow for pretty much everything else and it save us a fortune, even gave us a discount on our invites. I bought a sample wedding dress at ny bridal outlet in farmingdale and even with alterations it's less than what most people spend. There are definitely ways to make things work. Figure out what's most important and go from there.

Emazing17 Posted:

Re: Budget stress!!!


Posted by ypharmacy

I would recommend booking a place according to the 100 people ..we originally wanted 100 people but fell in love with a place that had a minimum of 125 and had a tough time getting the minimum..that tactic alone can save you a bundle ..




Yea our original plan was a 75 person wedding but than we fell in love with a place with a 100 person minimum so were willing to up it to have the place we want but were definitely sticking to 100 people max.
Emazing17 Posted:

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Posted by haw4

My total budget is about yours (with tips) for 100 people. I don't feel like I missed out in anything, prett much getting everything we want, just have to find vendors who are really willing to work with you. I told my florist how much I wanted to spend per centerpiece and she made it happen! We used complete wedding packages in east meadow for pretty much everything else and it save us a fortune, even gave us a discount on our invites. I bought a sample wedding dress at ny bridal outlet in farmingdale and even with alterations it's less than what most people spend. There are definitely ways to make things work. Figure out what's most important and go from there.




I guess that is the most important thing, I am definitely willing to compromise about some things but at this point I am just over estimating slightly and hoping that most thing comes out to be less than what I thought.
kedjmay2015 Posted:

Budget stress!!!

My wedding is also costing a lot more than we wanted to spend. We didn't want to go over 20,000 but are quickly reaching that number and we still need a lot more done.

YES he asked me Posted:

Budget stress!!!

I don't even want to sit down and figure out what I am spending. I know FH said anything over the budgeted amount is on me so my mother said she will pick it up...... :)
Now that is where I get worried because I need to include her on the invitation but he doesn't want to include his mom......UGGGHHHHHHH
Emazing17 Posted:

Re: Budget stress!!!


Posted by kedjmay2015

My wedding is also costing a lot more than we wanted to spend. We didn't want to go over 20,000 but are quickly reaching that number and we still need a lot more done.



Thats the part that scares me, how much am I forgetting about that is not included in the budget.
kedjmay2015 Posted:

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Posted by Emazing17


Posted by kedjmay2015

My wedding is also costing a lot more than we wanted to spend. We didn't want to go over 20,000 but are quickly reaching that number and we still need a lot more done.



Thats the part that scares me, how much am I forgetting about that is not included in the budget.



The main thing we didn't budget correctly was catering- it is so much more than we originally thought =/..... we also didn't account for tips

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