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First, I am so sorry that happened - I would be so upset as well. I do think that is incredibly rude of the other couple...and for the people who knew about your wedding date and are now saying they aren't sure if they can make it, I would question if they are true friends. JMO - I'm sorry this happened to you. That is so unfair. I'd focus on those who are supportive and are planning on attending.

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That is really frustrating. I'm sorry this is happening but you seem to have the right perspective.

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I'm sorry that happened. Unforunatly, on your end I don't think there is much to do. As long as the people you want there are there thats all that should matter.

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I'm sorry....that def stinks

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Yes, its upsetting (I would be too), but whoever is telling you they're not going to your wedding b/c there going to the other person's the month before I think is a little rude JMO. At the end of it all, at least all your guests will be those that truly care about sharing that special day with you!

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Well all the good places and vendors are already taken for August 2009 probably so hopefully they'll get discouraged by their lack of options and move it back.

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Im so sorry this happened to you. Very rude of the other couple.. BUT as you said you know who is more important will be there! Just keep focus.. concentrate on your day.... and it will all flow together.... best of luck

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I'm sorry this happend to you. That was very rude of the couple.

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How do they get a save the date months ago, and then someone just gets engaged and has the wedding before you and they opt to go to their wedding instead?????? That is total bs. I am sorry they did this to you, but maybe it's better that they don't come b/c they obviously don't care that much about your friendship/relationship.

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Excuse my anger but what bunch of f**kin turdasses! That is really RUDE of them to make their wedding BEFORE yours when you have been planning since APRIL. Second of all I think the people who you already planned to invite are rude for saying that they can't come to yours when yours was planned first. And this may sound cliche but if they are gonna just flake out on you like that and go to the other wedding maybe they aren't the best people to have around! Just feel confident that the most important people will be there and don't let this ruin it for you!

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You girls are awesome!! And I feel so much better already. Thank you!!

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That is totally rude of the engaged couple and for the people who made those comments that they could not attend your wedding for that purpose. Nevertheless, the people who love you will be there for you, and on your wedding day it's all about having good company...people you know are truly happy for you & love you. Some people just don't understand unspoken rules, lol. But I hope you feel better.

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That is SO rude!!! I would never think to call someone to say hey I was planning to come to your wedding but since I am going to XYZ's wedding in August now I can't make it. You are better off without them!!!!!!!!!

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ugh I would be so MAD too...but keep in mind that you are right, the people that mean the most will be there! Don't let this get you down, it totally is not your fault!