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Bummin sort of but not really...(unnecessarily long) **UPDATE**

Goldi1021 Posted:

Bummin sort of but not really...(unnecessarily long) **UPDATE**

I got the call from Bridal Reflections that my headpiece came in. I was very excited to go and get it so I could just play around with hair styles (which would determine whether or not I chop my hair off). So I went over there tonight to pick it up. It was a costly custom piece with Swarovski crystals and pearls. FH came in with me (he holds the credit cards)and sat in the lobby area while I went to another room to look at it (so he couldnt see).

So here I am looking at it and I realize that something is clearly off. The pearls that were added were not symmetrical and looked weird to me. Would most people notice? Probably not. Did I notice? IN A SECOND. I took out a piece of paper which had a photo copy of the headpiece and the places where the salesperson and I specifically mapped out where the pearls were to go in place of the existing crystals on the sample. The designer also left off two pearls.

Now here I am thinking I am OCD, and wacky. Im also thinking about how many close up pictures there will be of my head and how I will look at my wedding pictures for the rest of my life pointing this lopsided pearl issue out to myself and others. But I kept my cool, got the manager and she couldnt have been more accommodating. She did not invalidate my thoughts or ideas and was EXTREMELY responsive to making sure it was done right. She said bascially that no matter how much was spent on it, that I was the bride and it should be right. So she is sending the headpiece back until the problem is rectified.

This was not Bridal Reflections' problem or fault. This could have happened through any bridal salon. They were specific in their instructions to the designer and the designer was at fault. In fact, BR did assume responsibility since I contracted the designer through them. I am confident that the problem will be fixed. The sales people and manager were respectful to me, once again.

Despite all of the negativity I see here in regard to their customer service, I have yet to see anything less than excellence.

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By the way, someone did walk out of the store with SOMETHING. I had been looking at a beaded handbag that perfectly matched a dress I have to wear next Saturday night - a hard to match color. It was quite a bit more than I wanted to spend so I put it down. Since FH was with me and took his own car, he went back into Bridal Reflections, bought the bag after I pulled away and it was waiting for me on my computer desk when I got home. He knew I was disappointed and wanted to make me feel better. I love this man.

--------UPDATE---------

I spoke with the manager at Bridal Reflections today and my headpiece was received by the designer. THEY ARE FIXING IT!!! And again, BR couldnt have been nicer about it. I can't wait til it comes in!
esb980 Posted:

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Aww, your FH is so sweet! It's great that didn't argue w/ u and tell you it was your problem. I hope it comes in perfect next time.
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Yeah he is a good guy. Especially since I have curbed my urges for impulse purchases since we got engaged. It isnt all about me anymore, someone depends on me. So this was a surprise.

As far as BR was concerned. I think they saw I was upset in my face and the fact that I didnt come off as bitc*y and belligerent, they were responsive to helping me.
JessicaM. Posted:

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thats awesome on both counts. they were absolutely right, you should get what you are paying for, no questions asked!

and Rock on FH! that was just too sweet!
gNi1125 Posted:

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I know what you mean Leslie about the headpiece. Someone else might not notice but since your eye caught it... I know it would bug me too. Anyway, I'm glad they were understanding about it and I hope it's perfect when it comes in.

That was really sweet of FH Great bag!
BKtoLI Posted:

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Awwww your FH is so sweet!!!

And great to know that BR will take care of that for you. There are some places that would not give a damn.
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Posted by BKtoLI

Awwww your FH is so sweet!!!

And great to know that BR will take care of that for you. There are some places that would not give a damn.



Yet he wouldnt buy me that three-pack of flavored goat cheeses at Costco.
Blu-ize Posted:

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Posted by Goldi1021


Posted by BKtoLI

Awwww your FH is so sweet!!!

And great to know that BR will take care of that for you. There are some places that would not give a damn.



Yet he wouldnt buy me that three-pack of flavored goat cheeses at Costco.



I would go get it myself. In fact, when I go next time I will get it for you.
GsCM4EVA Posted:

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that's hysterical.......
it must be the Leo in u
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Posted by JeanineHubert

that's hysterical.......
it must be the Leo in u



Jeanine it was all I could to keep myself from 'roaring'. But I am trying to teach myself to reserve hysteria for when its necessary. You get more flies with honey ya know!
Jen2999 Posted:

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I posted some fred pics for you a little while ago... go find them!

SOrry about the headpiece but at least it will be fixed!
L&M2006 Posted:

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awwwwww, that is sooo cute!!!! FH's are so cute sometimes. That was really nice of him. And it was awesome that BR was so nice and accomodating. Even though it wasn't right, at least you can walk away feeling that BR will help get it fixed. Post a pic please - I want to see what this specially designed headpiece looks like.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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i think your response was perfectly reasonable and justified. so long as they address the issues, i don't see a need to get worked up about it and you clearly didn't.

BJandDan Posted:

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Awwwww on both accounts. I am glad that BR is helping you out!

MrsH1156 Posted:

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Awwww! That is so cute! You have a great FH!
Goldi1021 Posted:

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Posted by BJandDan

Awwwww on both accounts. I am glad that BR is helping you out!



I am too.

I am very aware that people have had different experiences with them. I will speak for myself when I say the constant store bashing makes me feel uneasy and uncomfortable. You've all seen what happens when someone bashes a vendor such as a photographer or a hall or a make up person etc. Heaven forbid! Thats why I don't do it. Not out of concern for the vendor's ability to make a living - there are plenty of non-LIWers who make their businesses worth while - they don't really NEED us. BR has been around as long as I can remember - way before the internet and LIW was ever a thought.

We are all extremely vulnerable until all products are in our hands and all services are rendered. I think it would be nice for all of us to remember that and maintain a level of sensitivity so the rest of us don't end up unnecessarily panic stricken.
FrogGirl0917 Posted:

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your FH is the sweetest!!!

And that is GREAT customer service....especially since it wasn't really their fault
Goldi1021 Posted:

Re: Bummin sort of but not really...(unnecessarily long) **UPDATE**

UPDATE AT TOP

M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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You have to do what makes you happy! Im glad all worked out for you. Did you like the headpiece altogether?

Goldi1021 Posted:

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I love the headpiece but it just wasnt sitting right with me. As long as the designer makes good on it, as I was told she is, I am totally cool. No reason not to be. I just had to wait a little longer. No biggie - thats why I do things in advance.

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