Bustles

hello ladies!

i am wondering which way would be most flattering to pick up my dress and bustle it.

i believe my seamstress suggested the 3 point bustle but i have a sash that i will make into a loose knot and might pin up with a brooch. the bustle also has some strings in the back to help hold up the bustle.

any suggestions? what are you ladies doing and with which type of dress?