BYE

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Posted by MrsC2010

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Posted by Espo22

I dont know what happened but seems like there was drama but whatever happened or if for whatever reason somebody has a problem with you, don't let them win by letting them get to you. Misery loves company and the only way to do so is to make others miserable and unhappy so i wouldn't let anything anyone say on here bother you.

Ive had ppl come on here and make up sn's to say horrible things and not just regular normal stuff but a while ago when i was more new to the site i had someone come on here saying things about my DH, and got real bad bc they were fm'ing other girls on LIW saying things and then somehow getting my email and being stupid. I even had a poll done on me to see what ppl think of me imagine how that would feel lol, i didnt let them win, i voted and posted that i voted 'hate denise' and just laughed the whole thing off bc why give in to them, just makes them look stupid for taking the time out to give so much attention to someone they don't like. I wasnt going to let whomever it was get to me like that, they were not worth my time or worth my aggrevation.

Just brush it off and know youre better than to stoop to that level and dont let anyone ever stop you from what you want to do.

Like real life, not everybody gets along you wont like everybody and same will happen on here. I think your forum wants you around so just focus on those who are positive and you get along with

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omg i can't believe they actually did a poll about you....thats crazy

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yeah talk about something you dont want to see and weird i cracked the jokes myself and the person didnt get anywhere bc they didnt get to me like they wanted to and took away from what they were trying to do. But yeah cant say i was thrilled lol

but worst than that they got into my personal life and went too far. So i know all about how this feels and in the end you get over it and realize some people are just not worth your time. Its them with the issue not you

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Posted by cateydee

not that i know anything about this whole drama since im not really friends with anyone on this site but its true- u shouldnt leave just because of some pettiness. if anything, those who started it should leave.

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well said, no idea what happened but you shouldnt feel forced to leave if you dont want to

I don't know what happened John but please don't leave over it! I haven't gotten to beat you or your son in mario kart yet

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Posted by Lsorrent

Oh come on John. I know we don't know each other personally, but I've had fun talking with you and I think you bring A LOT to these boards.

Besides (and correct me if I'm wrong or let me know if I'm overstepping my boundaries), I also think you're a stronger person than to just let one other bring you down.

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John don't give up. We LOVE YOU.

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Posted by Lsorrent

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Posted by snowa5

Not like anyone cares...but I am done also. I read some of what was taking place today and I think it is not needed here. Know most of you don't care so to those that do...you have my number and email.

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I agree that's it not needed. It's absolutely unnecessary.

With that said, I don't have your number and email, we've never met, and I care. Like I said to John, I appreciate the male input on this board. I wish there were more than just 3.

And I have to agree with Espo. By leaving, you're just letting the pettiness win.

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ITA!

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Posted by Kiki1103

I don't know what happened John but please don't leave over it! I haven't gotten to beat you or your son in mario kart yet

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Posted by MrsC2010

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Posted by Espo22

I dont know what happened but seems like there was drama but whatever happened or if for whatever reason somebody has a problem with you, don't let them win by letting them get to you. Misery loves company and the only way to do so is to make others miserable and unhappy so i wouldn't let anything anyone say on here bother you.

Ive had ppl come on here and make up sn's to say horrible things and not just regular normal stuff but a while ago when i was more new to the site i had someone come on here saying things about my DH, and got real bad bc they were fm'ing other girls on LIW saying things and then somehow getting my email and being stupid. I even had a poll done on me to see what ppl think of me imagine how that would feel lol, i didnt let them win, i voted and posted that i voted 'hate denise' and just laughed the whole thing off bc why give in to them, just makes them look stupid for taking the time out to give so much attention to someone they don't like. I wasnt going to let whomever it was get to me like that, they were not worth my time or worth my aggrevation.

Just brush it off and know youre better than to stoop to that level and dont let anyone ever stop you from what you want to do.

Like real life, not everybody gets along you wont like everybody and same will happen on here. I think your forum wants you around so just focus on those who are positive and you get along with

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omg i can't believe they actually did a poll about you....thats crazy

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wow denise.... sorry that happened... they were biatches!!! ur so loveable and helpful!!!

I dont know what happened, but you are loved on this board. You have made alot of these threads so much fun. Just look at these posts of all the people who want you to stay. You are letting the others win by leaving us. Dont do it John. Plese stay with us

I don't know what happened either, but I know there has been a lot said on the boards back and forth between groups of people which another thread has been started basically saying lets just move on... Its unfortunate that it comes like this because I joined this site because of John and Shawn and from the beginning there has been some resentment towards us for being guys on a 'brides' board... Now I don't know what to do because they both don't want anything to do with the board anymore, and its unfortunate because instead of it being divided this board should be the 2010 people getting along with each other....

I admit I have made friends off the site at g2g's that I hang out with offline... Do I only like those people? Not at all.... I like to be friendly and respectful with everyone as long as it is being returned to me the same way. Do I want to meet more of you guys, and your FH's and hopefully make some new friends of course.... It is great for Colleen and I to have 'couple friends' because since I'm from the city and she is from Long Island we dont have many friends that we both consider to be friends. So it is good that we have forged these friendships with people, and I know that they will be there for a lifetime...

I think it was Sora that started a thread about saying something nice about people, and that is a great idea, but instead of it being an individual thing, it should just be all of us liking each other for who/what we are... Shouldnt matter if were men/women, or in a certain 'click'... Which is very High Schoolish if thats even a word LoL.... It should just be about the fact that we are all getting married next year and looking forward to it I'm sure... Instead of being at odds with each other lets be happy with each other and move on with our lives....

Now that I have given my looooonnnngggg opinion I am going to do a 'boy' thing and go play video games.... Lata!!!!

as BOTW i demand to know whats going on!!!

JK but someone fill me in please???