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OMG Jaime what happened?
MarciaD
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Wow, I am so sad to hear this!
Hugs!
swags1016
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his family
mishandgerard
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what happend? are you ok?
eternityawaits
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What happened???? Are you ok??
SomedayBride
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OMG, that's terrible! I don't really know what to say to make you feel better, but I strongly believe that things happen for a reason, and when it seems like the worst thing in the world is happening, a lot of times, it works out for the best. You may not think that now, but you'll see it in the future. I really hope you're ok, I'll keep you in my prayers.
nycchic_24
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Jaime what happened???? Let it out..you will feel so much better..I promise!
Dani00518
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Its not because of his sister is it?
mishandgerard
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hugs and kiss to you.
if you need to talk i am up.
swags1016
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His family is a joke they do not like me because I am half jewish they have given me a hard time. I have asked him to step in more times than I can count he always says that he will handle it. His sisters do what ever they want. If you saw my post earlier today you would know what I am talking about. (It is too long to type again) I do not want her in my wedding party. She will not apologize for ruining my shower. I cannot stand her and I do not want to be in the same room as her. He was supposed to talk to her again while I was out with Suzanne and Heather and all he said was sis that was wrong. He never told her anything like this is our wedding we are paying for it but out -- nothing I have had it !
nycchic_24
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Did you talk to him Jaime...tell him exactly what you would like him to say to them??
swags1016
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I did. He didn't I have been yelling andcrying and fighting and TalKING with him since I got home that is why I could not answer your FM from before!
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Jaime...I am so sorry...I can't believe leather skin is such a b$tch...I feel so terrible that they are treating you this way. Have you expressed to Frank how you feel? I'm sending you hugs
LisaT
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OMG! Jamie I'm so sorry! You two can get through this - good luck
swags1016
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Dani for 6 years i have been telling him. Frankie is a very mild manner guy-- doesn't like to make waves Lard A$$ leather skin is the type of person that will push until you put her in her place. Frankie has never done that. The rest of the family goes she doesn't mean anything by that, that is just how she is-- how is being a low class racist excusable!
nycchic_24
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HUn, do you want to call me...talk about it?? Ill fm you my number if you want??
swags1016
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Noreen that is soooo sweet i cannot even speak-- my voice is gone and my tears are uncontrolable I would make no sense what so ever!
mishandgerard
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I am so sorry that you are having such a hard time with his family. He should stand up for you, you are going to be his wife and should be a team. Maybe you and him need to discuss this more and lay it out on the line.
About 6 month before my wedding something happend between me and fbil at the time. Well fbil took soemthing I said the wrong way and never told me, but told everyone else what a horrible person I was. Well, I skipped the middle mad (dh) and called by fbil myself. Well, he told me I should think about what I say before I say it. He never told me what it was about. I was so upset cause he was Best Man-so this made things much worse. When I told DH wwhat happend he said that he better not think he is going to choose between him or me cause he will lose and will always stand behind me. That is what your FH should be doing. You should be getting his support.
I am there for you if you need to talk. I am sorry you are going through this I know it is not easy. Please try to sleep on your decisions before cancelling anything. And maybe you should have a sit down with his entire family to air everything before it blows up.
Please not this is just my opinion of what I would do.
swags1016
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**** he just came home-- ugh now i have to look at him- i told him to go stay at his sister's house and he wouldn't he was going to sleep in his car but i couldn;t let him do that.
