Can anyone explain what changes?

Now I can't just get rid of him..........


No, but seriously, I have a sense of peace now. I know he is my partner for life and it makes me feel wonderful!!!

I feel like we are family.. a stronger bond!

Living together is GREAT. I am wayyy happier like all the time and we fight way less.

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Posted by leese

Honestly it depends on the couple, but for me... it was everything.

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Hey Leese, how about that name change?

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Posted by Goldi1021

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Posted by leese

Honestly it depends on the couple, but for me... it was everything.

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Hey Leese, how about that name change?

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That was a biggie!

But it's all good now...thanks to YOU!

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Posted by leese

Honestly it depends on the couple, but for me... it was everything.

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for some reason this makes me feel better. . .it was making me a little sad that almost everyone feels like nothing or little changes

obviously i have no idea yet, but i feel like it will be a major change . . .i know it will be hard but i really feel like it is going to be a HUGE change - i mean besides having kids. . .what changes your life more than marriage?

in a good way of course . . .

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by leese

Honestly it depends on the couple, but for me... it was everything.

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for some reason this makes me feel better. . .it was making me a little sad that almost everyone feels like nothing or little changes

obviously i have no idea yet, but i feel like it will be a major change . . .i know it will be hard but i really feel like it is going to be a HUGE change - i mean besides having kids. . .what changes your life more than marriage?

in a good way of course . . .

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I'm glad --- I was just being honest. It was the biggest change in my life and I am still going through it.

If you live with them before, or maybe together all the time, it may not feel as 'different' - but for me it was a complete change.

We often connotate 'change' as 'bad' .... I'm honestly saying that it was a big change. But I'm not saying it wasn't for the better in the larger sense.

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Posted by Goldi1021

I feel a serenity and a comfort that I never felt before. We lived together for 6 months before the wedding but thats what the six months was all about - the wedding. Now that that is behind us, we are family and one step closer to having children. IT is very real.

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I agree 100% with this. (although we didn't live together before). It's really hard to describe, but it just feels different. Definately a different kind of closeness we than we had before.

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Posted by leese

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by leese

Honestly it depends on the couple, but for me... it was everything.

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for some reason this makes me feel better. . .it was making me a little sad that almost everyone feels like nothing or little changes

obviously i have no idea yet, but i feel like it will be a major change . . .i know it will be hard but i really feel like it is going to be a HUGE change - i mean besides having kids. . .what changes your life more than marriage?

in a good way of course . . .

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I'm glad --- I was just being honest. It was the biggest change in my life and I am still going through it.

If you live with them before, or maybe together all the time, it may not feel as 'different' - but for me it was a complete change.

We often connotate 'change' as 'bad' .... I'm honestly saying that it was a big change. But I'm not saying it wasn't for the better in the larger sense.

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i think i understand

change doesnt always mean bad

but good doesnt always mean easy either!

we dont live together, and we see eachother every day but not for long -

so i think it will be the same for me