can i complain?? long for all of you who are bored and want to read
Original post by JZNCK
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FI has this cousin, that I CANNOT STAND, she is so rude, and not enthused about the wedding at all.. I told her all about my dress, and i said do you want to see it, and she SHRUGGED HER SHOULDERS!!!!!!!!!! Are you kidding me?? What is her problem?? It's like everything she asks about the wedding, is did I do this right? and did I do that right? I dont' even want her coming to the wedding, her attitude is going to ruin my mood.. i'll try so hard not to but I know it will, she does it to me whenever she's around..so anyway, she was telling me how much money it's going to cost her to come to the wedding, since she lives in Georgia, meanwhile, when FI and I went to her wedding we spent over $1,000.. She is married to a doctor, uggh.. I wanted to be like, then DON'T COME!!! then she asked if we were driving to new york? I said I don't want to , and a lot of our gifts will probably be given at our shower, so we wont' have too many gifts to bring back, and the ones we do have we can ship.. SHE GOES 'OH YOUR HAVING A SHOWER?' I said, I don't know for sure, but don't people usually have showers?? she's like, I haven't heard anything.. WHATEVER!!!! I wanted to cry, I want this to be special, i want to have a shower, now she has me thinking I'm not going to have a shower,and that makes me sad.. why wouldn't someone throw me one, am I not special enough.. I HATE HER and she's making me not even want to have my wedding!!!!!!!!!1
thiadora
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Re: can i complain?? long for all of you who are bored and want to read
Posted by JZNCK
She started acting like this, when we were all at FBIL's wedding, I was drinking a beer out of a bottle, and her and her mom ran up to me and said, I can't believe your drinking beer out of a bottle,ladies don't do that, they snatched the bottle out of my hand and ran and got a glass.. I replied 'it comes in a perfectly fine glass as it is' it wasn't a formal wedding, it was a hoe down.. ughh.. What is up with them????????? they were like, you need to come stay a week with us so we can teach you ettiquette, they said it jokingly but who are they?? that was the 3rd time I had met them
Sorry you have to deal with her. What a b***.
And it is extremely bad manner and taste to say to someone what she said to you. Manners are supposed to be used to put others at ease, not to make them feel bad about themselves.
Russo'sbride
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Re: can i complain?? long for all of you who are bored and want to read
and on second thoughts. Who cares what she or her mother thinks. They probaly don't have any etiquette or class. So therefore I wouldn't pay any mind to what they say. I mean if people I didn't care about were rude, I really wouldn't pay them any mind. Just think about what you have to do and don't worry about those people.
