Ok, so i am a 2013 bride and I am already married (city hall) we are now doing our church, and big ceremony..
since we are married can I plan bachlorette party, bridal showers etc..
or too tacky.. I was thinking a his and hers bachlorette??? please help and give me some opinios...
allornil
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hell yes you can! dont feel like you're not allowed to do those things!
hildie
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I feel kinda tacky.. and dont want to hear 'but u guys are already married' business
AwaitingAugust
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don't worry about what they say or think ... you deserve a bach party!!!
hildie
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I wasnt even going to add the 'engagement pics' bc I feel like I am married already
UGHH!!!!!
His and her's will probably be what we go for since most of our friends are married or will be by then we can all go together somewhere I wouldnt mind it..
but what about a bridal shower?
LindyBride22
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Of course you can!!! Not that it matters either way, but when did you have the city hall ceremony? And does everyone even know about it?
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Posted by hildie
I wasnt even going to add the 'engagement pics' bc I feel like I am married already
UGHH!!!!!
His and her's will probably be what we go for since most of our friends are married or will be by then we can all go together somewhere I wouldnt mind it..
but what about a bridal shower?
i think the joint bparty is a great idea... and you can have what some girls call a sprinkle instead of a shower... just do something small... i think the bigger the production the more people get salty about it...
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Do it up!!! All of the festivities leading up to the reception are special and amazing and contribute to the overall experience! ENJOY!!! Nothing tacky about it...do it your own way - maybe get creative!
hildie
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Sprinkle is soo cute I love the idea thanks!!!
We have been married for almost 2 years.. and yes everyone knows we live together and we have a 18 month old baby together ( i have an older child from a previous relationship)
hildie
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Thanks ladies!!!
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hildie
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HAAA true..
jettahot
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umm you can do whatever you want!! go crazyy!!!!
SummerBride10
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You can do whatever you want!!!
hildie
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u grils are awesome!! '
I am going to go crazy u only get to live this dream once and I have waitied long enough!!!!!!!!
we deserve it!
FutureMrsGTL
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I definately think you can do the e pics, bridal shower, bach party! and you definately deserve too!
hildie
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Thanks!
FutureMrsG
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If you are already married I would pass on the bachlorette party. Typically it is a party to celebrate you last single days and since you are married it seems a bit inappropriate.
hildie
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we will do a his and hers!
Bride in 2012
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I think it's perfectly fine!
My best friend and her DH eloped while they were away on vacation & came back and told everyone they were married. They had a small party a few months later and we threw her a Bridal Shower and Bachelorette Party b/c we didn't want her to miss out on anything
