Can I uninvite

lovetolove Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:43 PM

Can I uninvite

Two friends who were both verbally invited to my wedding, have since split, they had a bad break up and I do not know what to do, I do not want DRAMA on my big day. and they can not stand to be in the same room without fighting, i will have to chage the seatign order for them, can I uninvite them, even though I still love them both, I know they will fight, but how can I uninvite them???

beautyq115 Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:45 PM

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Thats a tough one...maybe one will decide not to go at all.....

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:45 PM

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IMO, if you UNinvite them, that will cause even more drama.

try talking to each of them and see what happens.

sarahthegreat Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:48 PM

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Posted by dleeny

IMO, if you UNinvite them, that will cause even more drama.

try talking to each of them and see what happens.

i agree, invite both and leave it up to them.

BHW Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:50 PM

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Your wedding isn't for a while so maybe things between the two of them will calm down. Even if they still don't get along, you can always seat them across the room from one another. Hopefully they're mature enough to not cause a scene at your wedding.

ssdbk Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:50 PM

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If you like the people, do not get in the middle. Just invite them.

cherryj24 Posted: Jan 16, 2006 04:51 PM

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Posted by BHW

Your wedding isn't for a while so maybe things between the two of them will calm down. Even if they still don't get along, you can always seat them across the room from one another. Hopefully they're mature enough to not cause a scene at your wedding.

I second that!!!!

wematched Posted: Jan 16, 2006 05:01 PM

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Posted by cherryj24

Posted by BHW

Your wedding isn't for a while so maybe things between the two of them will calm down. Even if they still don't get along, you can always seat them across the room from one another. Hopefully they're mature enough to not cause a scene at your wedding.

I second that!!!!

Third!!

lovetolove Posted: Jan 16, 2006 05:02 PM

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thanks

Bridex100 Posted: Jan 16, 2006 05:21 PM

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If you like them, invite them. They can decide on their own if they want to be in one another's company. You would like to think they would not fight at your wedding.

PrincessRose Posted: Jan 16, 2006 05:25 PM

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If they are your friends, you should invite them. There's always a chance that their wounds will heal before the wedding, and if not, well then ask them to be adults if they're both coming.

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 17, 2006 12:02 AM

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If you do not want to invite them, say you had to cut the guest list.

MJDoc12 Posted: Jan 17, 2006 12:10 AM

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Posted by BHW

Your wedding isn't for a while so maybe things between the two of them will calm down. Even if they still don't get along, you can always seat them across the room from one another. Hopefully they're mature enough to not cause a scene at your wedding.

yeah i agree. if they wedding draws closer and they are still being crazy--talk to them individually and let them know that you will just have NO DRAMA at your wedding since that day is not about them -- it's about you and FH. be sure to sit them as far away from each other as possible.

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Jan 17, 2006 01:21 AM

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Well, you have some time until your wedding. I would wait until it is time to send out invities, then decide. You never know what could happen in 9 months. They could get back together, or still hate each other.

A similar thing happen to me. My friends were dating for three years. I was really good friends with the guy. They were talking about getting engaged and she was going to be a Bm in my wedding. Well they broke up! For awhile I talked to her alot, but I now I hardly to talk to her. I am still good friends with the guy. He is in our BP. It has been about 7 months. For a while I was set on inviting both of them. Now, only the guy is coming. It would be to weird for the two of them. You never know how your relationship is going to be with these two people after a break up. You have to wait and see.