Sorry you have to deal with that. It s**ks to have someone promise to help you out and then not do it. Hopefully she will follow through!
mf2009
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Wellllllllll I have to say I am sorry that you are going thru this and my blood is boiling listening to you say this.
People really need to get off their high horse and mind their d*** business. Be prepared for your FMIL not to pay up for anything because it would suck if you a expected help later.
All I can say is focus on your day and don't let this get to you. Hope all goes well. When you get really upset just write everything out on LIW to calm you down and it will be ok.
ChrissyV729
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It would really bother me to. Do you feel comfortable asking her for help or would your FH help with the situation?
xosweetiexo
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Yea wow that really does stink. Why doesnt your FH ask her for the money that she 'promised'? My parents are helping out a little with the RH and I asked her the other day when she would be able to have the money to help us out. It wasnt rude at all... it's family- and she did promise to do it. Has he mentioned anything to her at all? Maybe he should to see what the deal is....
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thanks girls, I am not expecting the money at all and I never plan counting with that money because I am the type of people that do something based on a promised (learned the hard way). But it really pissed me off when people talk for talking and I know she is going to be the type that is not going to recognize that only because of MY MOM the wedding is happening
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join the club!
my FMIL did the same thing and said she was paying for the flowers but we havent seen money yet so we paid for the flowers ourselves.....im not kissin nobodys azz!
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Sorry you feel this way family can be the biggest headach during the wedding planning. Give FMIL the benefit of the doubt maybe she is going to give you something by January. Has FH spoken to FMIL to find out when does she plans on helping out?
LnF0405
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Posted by egem523
Sorry you feel this way family can be the biggest headach during the wedding planning. Give FMIL the benefit of the doubt maybe she is going to give you something by January. Has FH spoken to FMIL to find out when does she plans on helping out?
thanks, but I feel that FH shouldnt need to ask her for what she promise (YKWIM) for example one of my aunt offer to made my veil and pay for the favors, and I didnt have to ask for it she just offer and my veil is already in the way so why I have to kiss FMIL *** (as PP said) if this is her oldest son the one she always say she is so proud off etc and she offer!.. if she couldnt aford to help I would understand but say it..
