Cancelled-For Sale

DharmaColbie86 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 07:10 AM

Cancelled-For Sale

Hey ladies so after much consideration I've decided I'm probably going to cancel my wedding (at the bare minimum postpone it). So I have tons of things for sale. All the stuff in my BM album (jewelry, wristlets and dress) and my dress (also a slip, strapless long bra and bolero)

BM dresses two size 12's and a size 8. (Dark brown)
Wedding Dress is size 18 (ivory ballgown)
Bolero (ivory) and bra are (DD size)
Wristlets and jewelry I have 4 of each (wristlets are champagne)

Any questions/prices please FM.

It was so lovely meeting and getting to know all of you ladies and I wish you all nothing but a wonderful life full of happiness and beautiful wedding days!

I know some of you responded to my post last week and I really wanted to say I appreciate your feed back. I told him he needed to move out I needed space and we needed to take time if we are going to even attempt to work through it but after all that happened (he cheated kept speaking to her lied and covered it up basically our entire relationship I found out) im not sure it can even be repared it sucks and im upset but im glad it happened before the wedding and most of all I was so good to him I dont think I deserved any of it.

Thanks for listening and for the support

Xo
Allison

McC2McM Posted: Apr 24, 2013 07:29 AM

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Hon, you DID NOT deserve any of it. You have a big heart, proven by the fact you gave him another chance the first time. There is someone out there for you whose heart is as big as yours and whose capability to be loyal is as strong. Honesty is the # 1 requirement for any relationship. (We wouldn't expect anything less from our female BFFs, right?) I know that it hurts right now, and the short term will be difficult but the long term is there for you, just waiting. It would be difficult for anyone (and perhaps foolish) to think the behavior would change after marriage, without intervention. I'm sorry for your hurt but brighter days are coming. Feel free to FM, if you would like, (((hugs)))

MrsK Posted: Apr 24, 2013 08:02 AM

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I am so sorry you are going through this. I wish you nothing but luck in the future. Just be happy that you found out sooner rather than later. You are a beautiful young girl and you have your whole future ahead of you. Keep your head up!

Lisa and Steven Posted: Apr 24, 2013 08:45 AM

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What a terrible thing to be going through. I am really sorry you are going through this. Just keep your head up and you will find your perfect match. Good luck in the future!

vppjzv Posted: Apr 24, 2013 09:15 AM

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brads girl Posted: Apr 24, 2013 09:45 AM

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I am so sorry that you are going through this... Stay strong :)

sandr325 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 09:55 AM

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Sorry to hear this. You made the best decision for yourself and it was probably one of the hardest. In the end it will all work out and you will have your prince charming. It was lovely meeting and getting to know you and I wish you all nothing but a wonderful life full of happiness and a beautiful future (I stole your quote and changed it).
xo, Stephanie

tianamarie Posted: Apr 24, 2013 10:07 AM

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So sorry to hear this! I read your post last week and felt horrible for you! You deserve all the happiness in the world and so happy you aren't going to settle! Good luck!!!

jsh109 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 10:44 AM

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I'm so sorry to hear this!! I wish you all the best. Good luck!!

luckyerialc Posted: Apr 24, 2013 10:47 AM

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I'm so sorry he put you through all of that - NO ONE deserves that! Best wishes to you moving forward!! xox

meejack1110 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 10:58 AM

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I don't know this whole story, but regardless it's a hard situation. Bravo for being brave and standing up for what felt right to you. Best of Luck!!

LadyReeRee Posted: Apr 24, 2013 11:12 AM

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. I also had to cancel a wedding once and it was heartbreaking. But in the end, you DO end up fiding Mr. Right and everything WILL work out for the better. Best of luck.

Soon2BeMrsMango Posted: Apr 24, 2013 11:32 AM

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I am so sorry you are going through this. God works in mysterious ways and there is someone out there for you who will treat you and respect you the way you deserve. Best of Luck!

brnnglgn Posted: Apr 24, 2013 11:51 AM

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I am so sorry that you have to go threw all of this. If you ever need someone to talk to I am always here for you

xoxo

EAY213 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 11:58 AM

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So sorry you had to deal with this. You made the right to decision to take time and think about your future together. Best wishes for you and i hope it all works out in the end.

bridejackson22 Posted: Apr 24, 2013 12:26 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear. NO you do not deserve this at all. But like you said it is better that you found out before the wedding. And you deserve much better than someone who is going to lie and go behind your back. It was really great getting to know you. I wish you the best.

ladygoodman Posted: Apr 24, 2013 12:34 PM

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I've very sorry to hear this but everything happens for a reason. I wish you all the best in the future.

Nichelmus Posted: Apr 24, 2013 01:57 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear about this. My heart goes out to you. I wish you all the best and like everyone else said we are here for you. There is someone who is going to be way better than this guy and he will probably come when you least expect it.